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This ones titled 'Old faithful'....
But notice even though it's old...it's sturdy...it's straight...it's solid...

This is how men use to be...old, yet sturdy...or maybe men have never been that way...and it was just an illusion to me when I was younger...

Anyways...how is everyone? I'm enjoying the weekend...it's so nice to be home during the weekend...to not have to hear the sound of trucks or engines...it's so nice to wake up and only hear birds and the sound of the fan blowing...

it helps keep the stress level way down...

Some poster said I was 'freakin gay man'....today...even though I've never brought up sexual orientation in that particular thread...

Again...people react...and then blame you for their reaction...

'And again...how you look, has nothing to do with your sexual orientation...cause believe me...I could show you photos of plenty of gay males who look like John Wayne...infact 95% of all gay males look 'manly' or 'straight'...

But for some reason some people still believe that looking 'cute' or 'pretty' or 'soft' as a male...somehow is a reflection of your orientation....

This idea that only women can look 'pretty' or 'kept'...is still prevalent in rural America and inner city communities...

Rural America and inner city communities have a lot in common...they both seem to think in absolutes....

I've existed in both...and have been persecuted by both...so I know how they are...
Insecure men are always the first to attack...either verbally or physically...

They live in a free country, yet would deny others the right to be free and dress and live however...
The only thing I care about is public behavior...I do not like disruptive public behavior. Behavior that infringes on other peoples rights and freedom and safety...

None of which I do...
Instead of people telling you what you are...why can't they ask you? Or get to know you?
Personally...I think a lot of guys who gay bash...are turned on by gay men...otherwise...why would they care??

They react...get mad and upset that they reacted..and instead of examining their own soul...they externalize their frustration and attack.

If your not gay...what difference does it matter how cute another guy is or how they dress??

I freed myself from that restrictive way of thinking long time ago...I use to put on that macho act..but I realized...it was just that...a act...to hide my frailness...and most men are very frail on the inside...most men are more frail than females on the inside...

Women, on the inside, are actually very keen, aware, and strong...and when, as a male, you allow both of your sides to develop...you become the same way...keen, strong and aware...