It's funny, lately I notice all the fun topics are contained within the 'Ladies room' thread...that's a thread started by women and for women only...

But whenever I type a word or subject into the 'search' tab...it comes up in the 'Ladies room' thread...

When I first came on here, I use to clash with a lot of females, women, and now I know why...cause I think like they do on many levels...

No, not the sexual level, rather the perceptive level...I think...I use both sides of my brain...both sides...



And as such it makes you more 'whole' 'complete'...at least in my opinion and observed observations...

Male traits + female traits = wholeness

I do believe that's what marriage was for...a male and a female together, make a complete package...both physically and emotionally...

And that's why kids raised in a two parent household (assuming both parents are 'normal and the relationship is healthy) usually have many more advantages than those raised in single households...

There's nothing wrong with the Ward, June Cleaver model...



Infact, I think nature always seeks a balance...whether physical or emotional...nature always seeks a balance...
And sometimes in the absence of a mate or partner, single people have to find that balance from within...

Guys, who are constantly in relationships or dating or married, rely on their female counter part for that balance, and vice versa for women...

But not everyone is lucky enough to alway be in a gender equal relationship...some males and females spend a great deal of their adult lives alone...in no relationship at all...and as such I do believe the subconscious mind seeks or creates that balance on it's own.

(there are many variables I will not get into for the sake of keeping this post somewhat simple and short)...

The maturity level between single males and or males who have always been in relationships, can and do reveal quite a contrast at times...

Males, who have always been sheltered by females, (mother, girlfriend, wife), have never really had to mature much beyond the Al Bundy stage...
On the other hand, males who have had to venture through life alone, without the support and benifits of a female companion, are forced to mature at a faster rate, and to develope the other side of their brain to seek that 'balance'...

That male/female balance can often be achieved from within...



Usually males who have been on their own for a while are more honest, more perceptive, keen, aware, self suffifient, clean neat and tidy, and have the ability to 'listen' more...to absorb what others are saying...

The same way a mother has to, when raising many children..a mother, while raising kids, can't really take sides, but has to be the arbitrator in all matters and affairs of the household...that's quite a balancing act...

In an ideal world, every suitable male would be paired with a suitable female...but we don't live in an ideal world...and as such people must, and do, adapt, adjust, and survive best they can on all levels...

So what is the point of this post?
Comfort I suppose, for those who get it...

Or even a bit of clarity for those wondering...

Last note...
In the creation story...Adam was first, and woman came from Adam, from within him...Woman, or Eve, was already a part of who Adam was, he was both on the inside, until 'God' physically manifested his Eve side into a seperate being...

That in and of itself is very revealing...

Just what if that 'Eve' still lies within some guys, or males, and never made that step out?

(yes I know, very abstract, but that's what creative writing is about)...

Later...