Yes, man, males, are to blame for why many women suffer from 'shabby personality syndrome' or 'hallow personality syndrome'...

Why are men to blame?

Testostarone...that's why....

Testostarone blinds men to many faults or flaws in females, that they would normally notice in other males...

Nature, God, put it there for a reason...for if man could see woman as she really was, he might not ever want to mate...

And vice versa....

By men, males arbitrarily always heaping compliments onto women, without them really deserving it, it gives them a 'complex'...

In other words, soon women learn they don't have to be 'perfect' or work on their character flaws to attract the attention or compliments of a man.

They learn early on that men are driven by 'lust'...and that lust has a blinding effect on most men.
Where as a male learns early on, in order to function in society and get along, he has to develop socialble skills, manners ect ect...

A woman learns early on, in order to get by in society she simply has to wear high healed shoes and a cute dress...



You're looking at one of the most powerful weapons to be created in the 20-21 centuries...yes...the sedective power of the high healed shoes...and the power it yields over men....

And is often why character development is lacking in women...cause many by pass character development in exchange for 'appearal manipulation'....

It's an easier form of persuasion actually...

Anyways...add that with men, males who lack hormonal dicipline and the result is you get (left for you to ponder)....

Dads or fathers play an important role in the development of women.

As they effect the development of males...

Cause dads have a tendancy to 'neutralize' the bs, the games, the gender manipulation...

To your dad...you had better go do the dishes now, or else...

Going to your room, and dawning high heels, will have no effect on your dad...now he will break out the belt...that's called dicipline...

Your dad is trying to show you that it's about character and virtue...regardless of your 'sex appeal'....

Dads have a great way of neutralizing the bs...and if a woman had a good dad...it will show...cause she will be less likely to fall for the flattery of other men...she will not sacrifice principle for flattery...

Her character will be much more well rounded...and she will rely much less on 'manipulation' and more on just treating people right as a way of getting along....

Expecially if the woman had older brothers...cause older brothers also 'neutralize' all the bs...

Look...this is very complex, yet simple...and I'm approaching it from both...but time limits me right now...

To be continued...

Believe it or not...women aren't really 'loving'....

Not at all...and most have learned that they don't really have to be to get what they want....

Most women rely on 'sex appeal' to get what they want out of men or others...

But sex appeal, or gender appeal, is not the same as love...

As such, most women don't know what love is...but they do know what character manipulation is, and they do know most males are very suscesuble to it...(or however it's spelled)...

That's why I always remind people it's just as much the males fault, as it is the females fault, that things have evolved this way...

But most women just don't know what love is...they've really never had to use it before, and instead have relied on a mans need for 'lust', as a device instead...

And men often get the two mixed up to...

Mothers have a very strong instinctual protective bond for their off spring...

But that's no different than what a grizzley bear has, or coyotey or even a mother cat has for their off spring...
It's kind of hardwired in....

Again...don't confuse that with love...

Instinctual protection only applies to those within a direct biological line...that's not love...that's simply self interest...

And self interest in not rooted in love...it's rooted in ones on survival...

It's basically seeing value in yourself through something that came from you...

Love, true love, reaches way beyond that...and most woman don't have it...

If it's not in their direct line of sight or interest...you may as well be dead to them...

Thankfully the God people claim exists...is nothing like that...nothing at all...

For he loved the world, and everyone in it...he saw value in what he had made...

Not only value, but potential in a fallen world...he did not give up...

Where as people, not just on here, but elsewhere, give up on you left and right do to looks ect ect....

They just give up....

I don't....cause I kow what love is....