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Originally Posted by He who is called I am I trained for 2 years. Im not sure this is the same as what you are dealing with. From training a number of new drivers I have found out that people learn by different methods. Especially backing. If he looks like he is listening to you but does not show what you are telling him he (1) Might not care and not want to learn because he thinks he knows already.If this is the case then you need to get rid of him asap (2) He might not understand what you are trying to tell him and is the type of person who needs to learn visually and needs you to show him while getting out of the truck while backing and show him what to look for and what it looks like in the mirror while driving. Esplain to him the difference of the pivot point and the push point and how they react to one another while backing. (3) He might be shy of asking you for extra help on things you tell him once of twice in fear of you might thinking that he is not smart enough to do the job. When you drive for awhile you have ways of doing things and newbies just dont understand. Drawing things on paper and explaining what you are talking about helps as well. As a trainer you have to learn from your students and continously have to learn and adapt new ways of teaching the same thing to a variety of different people from different places and learing abilities. Good luck and stay safe. |
I believe that this is an excellent post. Written by someone who has "been there and done that," and probably been excellent at his job. As he says, you can't do much with a "know it all."
But getting someone who is shy or very introverted to actually get a dialog going, can be difficult. But this is often what it takes when you are doing any type of teaching/training. The trick is to be able to pick up on folks who may turn out to be good drivers, but don't have the gumption to say to you, "wait a minute, I just don't understand this part of it."
It takes patience, empathy, courage and knowledge to be a
good trainer. Trainers that try to yell their knowledge into a student's head are going to be quite unsuccessful with an awful lot of students.
Yes, there is a time and a place to do some yelling. But for the most part, folks learn better if they are treated like human beings.
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Originally Posted by luvtheroad (snipped)
This is what happened with me and possibly is with your student. I really was listening and trying to do what the guy was telling me to do. But sometimes it was like the brain and the hands werent working together or as fast as they should be. I honestly was listening but maybe not doing it as fast or as well as I was supposed to. So my teacher didn't think I was thinking and at one time asked me if I knew left from right.
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Some folks have a harder time picking things up than others do. Some folks have a harder time learning when someone is watching! It is easy to have one of those "mental blocks" jump up and bite you, right when you don't want it to.
At that point, you need to just stop. Take a few breaths, relax a bit and then "try it again."
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Originally Posted by luvtheroad (snipped) And please believe I can see a lot of humor in my backing up, I only wish I'd had it on film sometimes. |
This is good! We all need to be able to laugh at ourselves. It is a great stress reliever!
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