Could you rebuild a relationship if your spouse cheated?

Your Cheating Spouse: Recovering From an Affair and Rebuilding a Relationship

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NO!

Guess it is theoretically possible, but not with me!

(And no, didnt happen in either of my 2 marriages)

No Way.
I would never have that trust back. EVER.

It's a cliche' but I've heard numerous times, once a cheater always a cheater. I don't know if that's true or not...But my relationship could never be the same. I don't see how You could ever go back to the normal point.

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Mrs_Nash


30 years Young.
Mommy to D.J and Sheridan. Baby # 3 on the way ~ Summer 2009 !!

Wife to Daniel.

I LOVE MY TRUCKER.

Yes I could...ONCE

I won't go into details but I've been cheated on by my hubby, this was LONG before we were married (9 yrs ago) when we were together the 1st time. We split up and he married the woman he cheated with. They had two beautiful kids, I've got my son Tanner and honestly ... we may not have those kids if what happened didn't happen.
I firmly believe that it happened for a reason. I may not know what that reason was, but there was a reason behind it.

I know that isn't so in every case and I can understand why some ppl couldn't

I think that I probably could, once. I think that it honestly depends on the situation and how we handled it. Until I go through it, I won't know for sure.

[quote=Cybergal;266637]Could you rebuild a relationship if your spouse cheated?

Your Cheating Spouse: Recovering From an Affair and Rebuilding a Relationship





I let him (the ex) come back one time...then he did it again...so I'll go w/ the NO crowd.

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SUSAN

Boy o boy this is hard
I still dream of us getting back to gether again
My wife of many years cheated on me two times, I forgave her
Then I found out she was still seeing him, so we split up. I lived in my truck and we talked twice a day. It was the best, we both had time to realize how much we loved each other and that we were working things out. It was like falling in love all over again, but much deeper.

Remember I was living in my truck, to be separate to make sure we really wanted back together again. We both did!!! I thought

Just as I worked out the financing on our new house. I was served with a eviction notice from the condo we were living in. Reason too many police calls.

Thats when I found out she had a new boy Friend and he was sleeping in my bed. All in three months. I took the kids and kept them!!!

I know I am a fool, its been years and I still miss her!!!!!!!

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I had an ex-girlfriend cheat on me with a guy who was supposed to be my best friend.

He was married, and had two kids of his own. His kids called me Uncle Scarecrow. We were very close friends.

To this day, I don't speak with either of them.

Long story short, NO WAY IN H - E - Double Hockey Sticks!!

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Keep that diesel burnin' and those tires turnin', but get there safe to keep on earnin'!!

I've thought about this question for a couple of days now and still really am not sure If I could continue a relationship with my husband if he cheated.

I can't imagine the HURT first off and how to get over that and the TRUST factor would just never be there, which I believe would lead to other problems in the marriage anyway.

Iam not one for counseling as I don't like people getting into my head and am not sure I would go for that, if that were even suggested as a couple to do.
Lots of issues with this situation. I hope I never have to go thru it.

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I have to say that I am with the "NO" crowd. I think that if I fooled myself into believing that I could stay with someone who cheated I would be doing just that --- fooling myself and them.

I love my spouse enough to realize that I could never lay with someone else, although I fully believe that cheating is more than just a sexual thing. My Pops described it to we girls growing up as anything that you share with anyone else that you should only share with the man/woman in your life -- OR anything that you would be hurt to find out they were sharing. Best put - he told us that it is the doing of anything with anyone else that you would not do with your love in the same room. HERE'S YOUR SIGN....BINGO!

Life happens, and we are all human......my grandma could forgive, my father could not, I could never and my mother has over and over again.

I cannot imagine not telling someone I was flattered by their advances, bu that I was happily loved and taken. Even if I wasn't "so happy" at the time, there is such a thing as honor.

I deserve to be loved enough by someone who would rather call me and tell me how lonely they are and share those tough moments than hop in the sack with someone else. Can I get an amen???

Besides, just the thought of how my heart would break if he should ever be unfaithful to me pains me. I cannot imagine bouncing back from the real thing.

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Manda - In Love With A Ramblin' Man