You are far nicer about it than I am prepared to be.

I was thinking along the lines of closet idiot, and clearly unstable and off her meds!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And clearly delusional!
partners??

PARTNERS??????????????????????????????


Woman let me let you in on a secret, unless you are willing to allow him to be bi with you, there is no partnership here!!!!!!!!
There simply cannot be.

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People always assume that same sex attraction is purely based on the physical....
As humans we have a variety of needs...some physical, and many are not physical....

The problem is...for to many years the only thing that has brought men and women together...is just the 'physical'...outside of the gender difference...many women and men have nothing in common...different interests, different prospectives, different styles....

Woman must realize...and so must men, all healthy relationships begin with 'friendship' common interests.....if it's just based on 'Well she's a female, so I'll marry her'....it won't last...

And if women feel men should be attracted to them just because they are 'female'...is another erronious assumption...

There has to be more, than just gender difference, to make a relationship work and grow.

Many a lesbian or gay relationships have begun because the two involved had other things in common, similuar emotional needs, similuar hoppies ect ect...

It's all about needs, understanding your partners needs...we should be slower to blame...and quicker to examine our own role in why our spouse felt the need to go same sex....

some possible reasons...

If a guy leaves his wife for another male, it could be that somewhere along the road he started relating to his wife more as his 'mother' or 'sister' or 'maid' rather than a 'female lover and friend'....

And if a woman goes lesbian on her husband...maybe the husbands a slob...overly hairy and ungroomed....

For the most part, women can be beautiful and soft and clean....(for the most part)...As a unkept ungroomed male...your lady me be turned off by that...and subconsciously seek someone like herself.

Who knows...there's hundreds of variables...whether they leave you for a man or woman...there's hundreds of variables...we live in a flawed world...all of us act and behave in ways that were not apart of the creaters original intent...

Oh please.......cheating is cheating I don't care if it's with a man or a woman. Kill him, bury him, and find a new one.

I'm with you on this Tex.... also I don't need some-thing try to explain or reason with me to believe thier veiws.
GAY IS GAY!

Anybody wanna hear the story of my lesbian ex-wife?

I concur....

Only if you wish to share.

The sad part is I still consider her a friend. She's stayed with her lover longer than she's stayed with me, so I guess she's found happiness.

She once told me that she had a dream about Hell, but I couldn't find the words to say that maybe it was a sign.

Nothing sad about having the maturity to stay friends with an ex.

But 10-4 on the Hell reference.

That's just wrong!