My wife has become too fat for me

4/17/08

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when my fiance started to put lil weight on i suggested that she would join gym with me..ofcourse it has to be in both of your interests but make it appealing somehow....we both pretty healthy people and like to stay that way thats why it incouraged her to join me...and i made it as fun as it can be after about a month she even wanted to join me in my Muy-Tai lessons...lol

Marriage vows don't mean diddly any more. Sad really. She's the same person that he married inside.

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Now I wouldn't have been so nice candy coating it all. He said from the beginning her appearance was an issue.......well dah buddy that's a no brainer.....what did he marry her for then? If there is no physical attraction in the first place then sorry but there never will be.

Oh I could rant and rave forever because yes this is a touchy subject for me. I'm a big girl and know it. I've always battled with my weight since I was about 12, but trust me I do not let my size detour me from lookin darn good at home cleanin, runnin errands, in the office, the kitchen or the bedroom.

Oh well it's too early in the morning to justify this ####'s behavior, even begin to wonder what her issues are or defend in more detail why this subject makes me cranky His problems run deeper than having a heavy wife. He needs to understand food for many is an addiction the same as any drug and is nothing but a misguided attempt to mask some deep pain.

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Now that's a M A N..................Kudos dude & thanks for having a heart

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What a cold hearted SOB does he think he's gods gift to women?? Sounds like he is looking for a way. And who knows she may think there are things wrong with him. I'm not small by any means but my boyfriend is and thank god I found someone that loves me for me not my appearance. Omg I better shut up I'm getting wound for sound and this could go on and on and on etc That guy can kiss my

Dayummmmmm gurl......you go!!!!

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I agree with here, this probably isn't about her weight as it is about other issues that are facing them. My ex husband used to be so obsessed with my weight and every morsel of food that went into my mouth. His issue wasn't so much with my weight, as it was with him being an SOB control-freak.

Am wondering what that guy looks like.

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The brain works in mysterious ways, if it works at all.

I always put this question out to both men and woman when this subject makes it's way into a conversation:

What if you went totally blind, or perhaps you were paralyzed-disabled, would it matter then?(be honest)

Face it, society has trained most of us to judge everything from a visual point of view more often than not. Blame visual advertising and most other forms of visual media, tv, movies etc that have conditioned the space between our ears and it only gets worse if we allow such mind control.

The value system of the world today has changed for the worse, and in many ways thanks to the constant bombardment mentioned above.

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