I confess, wear the t-shirts, sleep with his robe cuz it smells like him and sometimes put on his cologne! PATHETIC!!!!!!

Thanks for the tshirt idea on the pillow case, just wondering if putting his cologne on it might be too much? In the beginning when My husband was going to be gone over a holiday( he was away 2 weeks at a time for the first 16 months) I would make sure he had a gift or card or something hidden in his bag. It would have been nice if he would have thought ahead to do this for me but I know he had alot on his mind. I usually got a thank you call at least. So this year I gave him a calender with birthdays and important days written in. That way he remembers to call ppl to say happy birthday or whatever. Also the week before his birthday I start campaigning to get as many ppl as I can to call him and tell him happy birthday. I know he appreciates it and it makes me feel less helpless when hes on the road and theres nothing I can do to make his life easier.

Texas is where they're at, so Texas Law. I live in Kentucky, and we where living in Colorado when we went our seperate ways.
No restraining order. I wouldn't even argue with her, and that was part of her problem with me she told me. Because I didn't "fight back." I don't see the point in arguing etc, it just compounds things. That being said, I have argued back before, just not often. She's been physical with me though.... used to twist my nipples when she got really mad, and broke the door frame of our bed room once with my body. yes yes her twisting my nipples even humors me..... I'd laugh, and she'd hit me..... I'd laugh again, because i have a bad sense of humor, and tell her she hit like a girl. That didnt' go over to well with her, but it sure as hell amused me.
She lives in China Texas now. Her boyfriend can put up with all her bs.
I am going to get visitation, I am still trying to get a divorce. She was calling me until after we broke up and talking to me like we where friends. Called me while she was driving to her boyfriends house and told me as much. I get a phone call, and had to put her on hold.
My friend gave some girl my number, and we where going to meet on a blind date. Got back on the phone with Rachel she asked who it was, I told her, and she went ballastic. I've only spoken to her on the phone once since then.

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I know that its not the same for me as it is for all you ladys, but I miss my wife back in the states. She takes care of everything with thetrucks and all the stuff around the house on top of her own job while I am deployed over here in Iraq.

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Diesel Smoke, you and your wife have it much tougher than any of us do. We know that in 6 weeks we can see our man again, your wife has much longer to wait.

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She sounds like one heck of a lady...and you should be proud of her....but at the same time....look where you are....fighting for our country while she is taking care of things in the states...I am sure you miss her alot and vice versa....I salute you for your bravery and helping to keep America free...and I admire your wife for her bravery too....because it takes a strong woman to do what she is doing and keeping things going....God bless you and bring you home safe and blessings to her too....

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" I know for fact that the man with the long hair lives...He guides me thru each day and keeps me safe!

Texas is a PITA for a father to fight a custody suit. I was hoping you'd name off some state that allows a father more rights.

Here in CA.. Since she is expecting a child that is YOURS, you could easily file a suit for custody of both children, and win.

DeiselSmoke... All I can really say is, y'all are something to be proud of!

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Talk about sisters from another mother! HI SIS!!!!!!

GOTTA love a sense of humor like that, prisoner!! You crack me up, man! Too bad it didn't crack HER up too....sounds like she needs some SERIOUS help.

oh yesssssssss can i relate!!!! this has been a very tough week for me as well...same thing is going on here sista...let's talk, please...i could use a friend right now.

Lisa