How to deal with wife at home?

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  1. NewNashGuy

    NewNashGuy Road Train Member

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    I am in a training truck with Maverick and love it. This is the best job I ever had and hope I will continue to enjoy it. I think I will because we had a lot of bad things happen that other truckers complain about and they do not bother me at all. When we have to wait for 10+ hours, instead of sitting around I am making money from my websites so I am still getting paid.

    I have been married for only four months and the wife is at my house complaining about how she is all alone and wants me to quit Maverick in a year and get a local job. I really like this company and do not see myself giving up something great. Any advice would be helpful.
     
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  3. DragonTamerBrat

    DragonTamerBrat Road Train Member

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    If you don't pay attention to what your wife wants, you won't have a wife for long.
     
  4. gravelhauler

    gravelhauler Medium Load Member

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    Would it be any better to be home and doing a job you dont like? Maybe you could suggest her getting a job to keep her occupied. For the first year I ran OTR my wife threw a fit every time I got ready to leave for the road. 5 years later she's complaining if I'm home more than 3 days.
     
  5. virtuous wifey

    virtuous wifey Bobtail Member

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    If she isn't working maybe perhaps you should bring her out on the road with you for a week or so. Make sure you are trying your best to be as romantic as you can like an email everyday just to say I miss you and love you, post cards from the places you go send her flowers, bring back little gifts and wine and dine her when you get home. We as women must understand you all have a job to do but as long as your keeping the romance alive she should be ok
     
  6. DragonTamerBrat

    DragonTamerBrat Road Train Member

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    Gonna say it again, if the wife is NOT HAPPY with the arrangement, it does not matter what you do. Four months married is not a whole lot of time invested in a relationship. Some people do NOT LIKE BEING ALONE. Also, if you went in saying "oh baby, it's just till I get my year in and can go local" and now you are changing your tune, what do you expect?

    Everyone's relationship is different, but if you don't take what she wants into account, there won't be a relationship to worry about. You sound like this to me: "I love being away from the wife, but she is whining about it. I don't wanna do what she wants, how can I make her shut up?" This is how it reads to me.
     
  7. albhb3

    albhb3 Medium Load Member

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    to the op 2 black guys and some blow:yes2557: on a serious note the above poster would be correct
     
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  8. gravelhauler

    gravelhauler Medium Load Member

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    Don't forget the video camera!!!! I like cuckolding videos!!!!
     
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  9. U4EA

    U4EA Road Train Member

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    You could always get some of your friends to help her out while you're away. I never mind assisting a lonely lady. :yes2557:
     
  10. PackRatTDI

    PackRatTDI Licensed to Ill

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    Sounds like my wife.

    "You're not making money if your sitting here watching "Mob Wives"!"
     
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  11. gravelhauler

    gravelhauler Medium Load Member

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    Told my wife to get her a boyfriend. As long as he doesn't drink my beer we won't have any problems.
     
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