Lmao I watch him everyday. I’m seriously considering taking the position man. They start at .68 a mile that’s insane. I will run over there like a slave five days a week
GF says no to Estes xtraboard! Advice for a good alternative?
Discussion in 'Experienced Truckers' Advice' started by Brandonva804, Apr 7, 2021.
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OP, you're not simping man. You've been home 1-2 days a week for the past 2 years. That's not a lot. You're both young and everything works perfectly for both of you - Can you blame her for wanting to be physical more than a day a week in the prime of her life? She's in her 20's (or maybe early 30's), she's not a grandma. And you're not a grandpa either. Surely both of you want more at this age in your lives?
And it's not only about sex (although that certainly is a big part of it too). It's about bonding and creating memories with her. It's not some random girl you hooked up with for a one night stand. You've been with her for two years. I'm assuming by "working on marriage" that she's committed to being a good mother to your future children.
Based off of OP's posts in this thread, there are zero warning signs about this girl. She has stuck with him in what has essentially been a "virtual relationship" for 2 years despite being in the prime of her life.
Look OP I'm not telling you to simp but you can't blame a woman in the prime of her life wanting her man to be around more than 1-2 days a week. She wants to be around you more. That's hardly an unreasonable complaint to have.
OP, I would advise not to go full blown autistic by telling her "It's my way or the highway". Instead I would include her as part of the decision making process in a way that she'll listen to and understand, as I stated previously. Just discuss it with her in ways that will get through to her.
As an outsider looking in, I think a place like Estes sounds like the best opportunity for you and your future family. I hope you can convince your girl the same thing if you believe that too. But at the same time if you're serious about this girl and you've done your due diligence and all that, I wouldn't choose a job over someone who I want to spend the rest of my life with.
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It's a fairly recent term, I only heard it in the past few years.
What OP has described is nothing like a simp and is nothing like simp behavior.
I'll put it like this: A simp would be somebody whose girl told him that she would rather he BE AWAY FROM HOME 5-6 days a week so that he could earn more money for her to go shopping or something like that. Rather than a girl who WANTS HER MAN TO BE HOME MORE OFTEN and is willing to take the loss of household income, so that she can spend more time with him and so that they can start a family together.
Think about that. There's a difference. A huge difference. His girl wants the household income to fall so that she can be around her man more. And there are people objecting to that in this thread, throwing out terms like "simp". No, just no. OP's girl is doing the exact opposite of encouraging simp behavior.Rideandrepair Thanks this. -
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One job offer he mentioned was 50 cents a mile and home every night, terminal less than 20 minutes away.
that sounds pretty good to me
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