Discussing termination with prospective employers

Discussion in 'Experienced Truckers' Advice' started by KD8FQB, Feb 22, 2013.

  1. KD8FQB

    KD8FQB Light Load Member

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    Just wondering if anybody has any tips for discussing termination from previous companies with prospective employers? I had a nightmare of a situation a couple years ago with a really bad mom & pop company where I quit / was fired on my 2nd week with them. It was a real bad situation that was beyond my control but the fact that I lasted 2 weeks has cost me some really good opportunities with decent companies since then.

    I've never really been someone who can effectively get my point across to people, I guess that's why I drive a truck. When a company calls me up because they are interested in me but I can't explain in 3 pages or less what happened I get really nervous and just freeze up. I know that my previous employer was in the wrong, I know I did everything to the best of my ability, and yet I still don't know what to say. FMCSA says you legally have to provide this information to employers so I can't just lie or omit the fact that I worked there, as much as I would like to.

    After that experience I was unemployed for 6 months and no other company would touch me. I finally bit the bullet and went back to a company I worked for previously until I realized why I couldn't put up with their B.S. in the first place. Now I've been off 3 months after having a sickness / death in my family and keep getting rejected by decent companies because of this showing up in my work history. I would love to find a good company to call home but this headache is just ruining any possibility of that so far. Any advice would be greatly appreciated but I will ignore any accusatory comments. Thanks in advance.

    Dave
     
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  3. tirednaz

    tirednaz Heavy Load Member

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    My advice is to always be truthful no matter what. Lying will just make things harder. 2nd, if you have job opportunities with other companies that are willing to overlook the issue then I would do it until you can move on to a better spot. Things happen suck it up and move forward.
     
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  4. barwick

    barwick Light Load Member

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    Resigned will do!!
     
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  5. KD8FQB

    KD8FQB Light Load Member

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    I appreciate that. That is what I'm probably going to have to do for a while until I get more stable work history. I just feel stuck between a rock and a hard place between companies that pull crap that I know I won't last long at, even if they take me, and companies that would be a good fit but have those higher expectations. Thanks again.
     
  6. WV_Daddys_Girl

    WV_Daddys_Girl <b>Crusty Ole' Wifey</b>

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    It is always recommended to be up front and honest with a prospective employer; however, your situation seems to be an exception to that rule. You could just omit this particular employer from your credentials since you were only employed by them for 2 weeks.

    If you're concerned that a prospective employer will find out about this particular company, go ahead and list them as a previous employer. When the time comes to explain the reason why you are no longer employed, tell them the company was not a good fit - for either of you. If they question you further or ask why you felt it was not a good fit, tell them - but don't bash them in the process. This will only reflect poorly on you and make the new employer think twice about bringing you on board.

    I do have a suggestion to help you when talking with a new employer - write down what you want to say on paper and keep it near your phone - that way when they call, you have a little cheat sheet to reference. You can also use this cheat sheet to help prepare you for what you want to say when you are face to face, too.

    Good luck and try not to let it get you down. You're not the first person to have ever been fired from a job nor will you be the last. It happens to most us - nobody's perfect.
     
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  7. FLATBED

    FLATBED Road Train Member

    Be TRUTHFUL as already posted is the best deal , and keep the story on what happened as short as possible. Nothing worse than a 2 hour recap of what the OTHER company did wrong.

    I have passed over some drivers , O/O's just for that reason.
     
  8. KD8FQB

    KD8FQB Light Load Member

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    This really helps me a lot, you have no idea. Like I said, I don't like the idea of lying or omitting anything because I learned early on in this business to CYA, so I think I'll stick to the books on that part. As far as the explanation, I guess I just have that habit of saying more than needs to be said, I'll have to keep in mind to be concise and to the point. I tried the paper thing to keep notes but it's really hard for me to form complete sentences from notes without sounding like I'm reading a script.

    Thank you very much for your kind words and advice, I appreciate it.
     
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  9. KD8FQB

    KD8FQB Light Load Member

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    You make a great point. Thanks.
     
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  10. Chinatown

    Chinatown Road Train Member

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    You may have to settle for what may be a less than desirable company, in your opinion. Do those online applications and you will find a job soon. Just keep the problem with the one company short & sweet; it just didn't work out for some reason.
     
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  11. WV_Daddys_Girl

    WV_Daddys_Girl <b>Crusty Ole' Wifey</b>

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    You are very welcome! It's a tough job market for any industry.

    I would like to add that if the new employer continues to press for more details of your termination, try and steer the interview back on track:

    Employer: "Okay, you stated that you felt you and the company were not a good fit. Please explain in further detail."

    You: "I've been a truck driver for XX years with my primary experience driving ??? (OTR, local, etc.). During my tenure with ABC Company, I quickly realized that my particular skills/experience were not being utilized to their full potential and I decided to pursue other opportunities more aligned to my skills/experience."

    Think of yourself as a salesman - you are marketing yourself to this new employer. Just remember not to ramble on and on about yourself - align your skills/experience to what they need/want.
     
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