Why do so many people engage in infidelity? Experts link habitual cheating behavior to narcissism, a desire for attention, affection, and the excitement of winning over others. I cheated on my husband while he was away for work Without yelling or cursing at me, he stayed silent before saying, “I thought you were different.” Japanese volleyball star caught in affair scandal with JAV actress Volleyball star Ran Takahashi is said to have spent the night in a hotel with two different women on two consecutive days, including a Japanese adult video actress.