I always list all my meds when I renew my physical. It is asked if you are being prescribed any medicine by a doctor and if so to list them. Do what you want, but could be a problem if you don't disclose them and it is found out. However unlikely, not being truthful on an official form can bite up in the butt in unexpected ways.
Nope. Never have, never will. 20+ years and 0 problems. As far as people saying there’s a data base, I have never seen concrete evidence to support that claim. Plus, I’ve never signed a release for the medical examiner, so they can’t access my records anyway.