Frustrated with new job-what to do?

Discussion in 'Questions From New Drivers' started by Shrekker, Dec 26, 2021.

  1. Lonesome

    Lonesome Mr. Sarcasm

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    Been there, done that. Some companies are just not a good fit for everyone.You can try and make it work, but if you just ain't feeling it, personality conflicts, the trainer is a Richard, whatever, it might be better to find something else.
     
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  3. Kyle G.

    Kyle G. Road Train Member

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    Your trainer is an imbecile. Didn’t even need to finish the second paragraph to figure that out. Unfortunately, these types of trainers are all too common. And it really P’s me off knowing that these useless loudmouth types are the ones the new guys have to rely on.

    I really don’t have the answer for your situation, but please don’t give up. If you can make it to where you are on your own, that will really be your chance to prove yourself. Not that you need to go above and beyond to prove yourself, just show up on time, do your job, don’t #### anything up, and be honest. If you can do those 4 things, you will be a hundred times better driver than the idiot who is attempting to train you. Good luck!
     
  4. Rideandrepair

    Rideandrepair Road Train Member

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    Your gut is telling you what’s right and wrong. Don’t doubt it. Small Companies always have a pecking order. Sounds like you’re it. Move on ASAP, meanwhile tough it out. Won’t be forever. Don’t doubt yourself. I’ve been in your situation a couple times. It’s tough. You’ve entered their little world, and are now subject to it. Move on don’t look back.
     
  5. Kyle G.

    Kyle G. Road Train Member

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    If you do decide to jump ship, you should tell us your location... someone here can probably point you toward a better company. Again, good luck.
     
  6. silverspur

    silverspur Road Train Member

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    I wouldn't go back. They're trying to compromise you. Will they be there for you when you crash the truck and get sentenced to 110 years in prison?
     
  7. cman87

    cman87 Light Load Member

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    You could go back in and explain your concerns with your boss/trainer. If they're not receptive just turn your keys in on the spot.

    Your trainer is rushing you and that's when you'll screw up.
     
  8. Chinatown

    Chinatown Road Train Member

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    Where is your location; maybe someone on here can give you leads to a better job.
    Do you want local or regional or OTR, or does it matter?
     
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  9. Lunatic Fringe

    Lunatic Fringe Medium Load Member

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    You've got several problems.

    Sadly, not every trainer is in it to train. It sounds like you drew some punk who only wants the extra pay and is more concerned with his beauty sleep and getting home as quickly as possible than in making sure you're properly trained.

    The maintenance issues aren't new. If none of the other drivers does a pre-trip, deficiencies are recorded in pre-trip and post-trip reports but nothing is fixed and everyone just shrugs their shoulders that's a real bad scene. Management knows what's going on (or should) and just doesn't care.

    The whole Mean Girls business of your hack trainer bad mouthing your driving skills to the other drivers would earn him a beatdown if he did that to me. I suspect he wants to extend your training less because your skills aren't up to speed and more because he wants more training pay.

    Sticks and stones. They can say whatever they want to about you and your driving skills but an accident caused by unsafe equipment or your b.tch as., "trainer" pushing you to rush and perform dangerous maneuvers will follow you after you part ways with the company. You're worried about job hopping? It's easier it get hired if you quit with no tickets or accidents than it is if you tear off a trailer door or mirror and get fired.
     
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  10. bryan21384

    bryan21384 Road Train Member

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    ^this post. I've done small companies and large companies. To be fair, it wasn't all bad at the small companies. I just found it difficult to make a career with them. I know there are guysbon here with small fleets and I want you to know that I'm not trying to paint all small companies with the same brush. For the majority of the smaller outfits, this is the reality: there is a reason the bigger outfits have last as long as they have, and grown to the level they have. They do things the right way. They have more structure. They have the stronger customer base. They have multiple trainers, and this is what I think is killing OP. Its one trainer. The guy training him has no business training.

    @Shrekker if you feel like your equipment isn't safe, it's OK to say you refuse to drive it. If you need to get out and look, or even use the passenger mirror, that's OK. You have to do what works for you. If you can't be who you are as a driver, then that's not the place for you.
     
  11. Shrekker

    Shrekker Bobtail Member

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    Thank you all so much for your replies. The tips are definitely appreciated, and so is being validated that this isn’t right.

    I am located in Fairfield County, Ohio.

    My trainer made it pretty clear this is for the money. Can’t say I blame that, but it definitely shows in the application of training. It’s like it’s fine to call me a dumba— constructively, but when it’s out of frustration, that’s when it bugs me.

    I’m trying to balance all this. I’m the new guy, but have to prove I am competent enough to train, without coming off as a “know it all” graduate, stand up for myself and what I do without being insubordinate (kinda failed that one already), and find the balance of practicality vs by the book. I didn’t figure this would be exactly like my CDL school, but this is so far from even basic training that it got frustrating, and fast.

    At this point, my line in the sand is drawn. I’m new to this, but I have to drive my own drive and follow my gut. All this had me questioning everything. I didn’t know if this is just how it is, if my CDL school actually prepared me for what I’ll be doing, if I’m actually cut out for this. Your responses really cemented that this isn’t just me, so again, I appreciate them all.

    We are on holiday shutdown right now, until the beginning of the year. I’m going to bust butt and try to find something else, but even if I do have to go back, I’m not compromising on the safety aspects including GOAL, slow backing, and USING MY PASSENGER MIRROR.

    How much is it going to mess me up in future positions switching jobs/jumping ship this early? Like was stated above, I guess it doesn’t look as bad as a ding on my safety record, just don’t want to be ending a career in this industry before it even started.

    The crap talking bugged me a bit, but I can handle that decently. I’m just here to work at the end of the day, not make lifelong friends, but man, that was kind of the last slap in the face I needed to wake me up to get an outside perspective of this company.

    The poor training and drama I can fight through until I go solo, but the poor equipment maintenance is my biggest red flag that I better start going. Some things I can fight through, some things I can change, but when management gives up, stuff lands where it lands and stays it seems.

    Thank you again for all the responses, I feel like a big weight is off my shoulder just putting this out there. I’ll try to get better about writing books on here, but thank you for taking the time to read and respond.
     
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