Please Help My Son

Discussion in 'Questions From New Drivers' started by MikeStamina, Jan 10, 2025 at 6:30 PM.

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  1. Moosetek13

    Moosetek13 Road Train Member

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    I get a kick out of those videos.
    Cop puts the lights on and the car makes a run for it. Sometimes doing a pretty good job and sometimes not, up to the point when they get pitted.
    Putting everyone in danger, when the outcome is pretty much a certainty.

    He actually should be having a difficult time finding a truck driving job.
     
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    Right....talking about next level harsh. You may have the understatement of the year, 11 days in lol
     
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    The 7 years really is a thing, especially for new drivers. Companies seem to overlook hiccups at times if a driver has experience. The question is whether he can leave the state, and the length of time he's on probation for. In this freight market, these companies are picky. The want pristine drivers seemingly.
     
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    Well, it may be harsh, but I agree. 1st of all, I feel a bit of E-TA's frustration. I made sure my record was clean. It insured the job shuffle with no problems. A person with ANY kind of infraction simply was not allowed to drive a truck. The fact companies are resorting to hiring felons, only tells me we're at the bottom of the barrel for drivers. I don't mean to be cruel, dad looking out for the son, but you aren't doing him any favors, and a conviction is still a red flag in the industry, or should be. The harsh part, is your son spelled his doom with poor decisions and now trying to back peddle in an industry that may or may not accept him.
     
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  7. MikeStamina

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    Thanks...it's all good.

    Typical story of a kid that grew up in the suburbs but just had to find out how hot the stove is for himself.
    And these are the consequences..

    Lucky for him , he has support. Some kids don't...and the spiral continues...

    But he's calmed all the way down. Never was a drugs or guns kid, just an outlaw that hated listening...
     
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    You're entitled to your opinion...
    This is what happens when you bring issues to a public discourse...

    But you pretending my son running from police at 19 is going to be his defining moment is the height of foolhardy pretentiousness.

    The end goal is Lineman. He just took the exam last Saturday in Houston. Out of 30 people, he was one of 6 that passed part 1. However, he didn't pass part 2 which is more electrical technical knowledge. He will return in two months to retest.
    Going through the union, even if you pass, placement can take months. Hence why he's job hunting

    In due time the boy will be just fine.
    Making more money than you.

    Next time try to pump the brakes on assumptions
     
  9. tscottme

    tscottme Road Train Member

    I'm guilty of the same thing in other places.
     
  10. MSWS

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    I really don't see a reputable carrier, even a second chance one, hiring a 23-yearold with any kind of felony. It's an insurance thing. He's extremely young AND he's demonstrated poor decision making. That's the textbook definition of HIGH RISK. Maybe someone would've taken a chance on him a few years ago, but not in today's slow market.

    You sound like a good mom. I hope he appreciates you and puts as much effort into his own future as you do.
     
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  11. Rugerfan

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    Wow. Typical answer these days. Your felon son makes bad decisions and daddy comes looking for answers. Gets said answers, and doesn’t like them. Raise a better kid if you don’t like it. We aren’t felons, your son is. Now deal with it.
     
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