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<p>[QUOTE=&quot;GuysLady, post: 231715, member: 8359&quot;]&quot;I think (a) memorial may be a good way for the family and communities who have been touched by this tragedy to move toward closure and healing,&quot;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I don&#039;t think in this case there is really any such thing as &quot;closure&quot;.&nbsp; Even not knowing these families personally, there is no sense of finality to it.&nbsp; It may sound odd, but a widow&#039;s emotional thinking would be to deny it, no matter how impossible it may seem.&nbsp; A case of &quot;<i>there is no body.&nbsp; How do I know he is not coming home tomorrow?&quot;</i></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I really don&#039;t know how to bring about some sense of closure in this situation.&nbsp; They will never be able to provide a &quot;cause&quot; of death, a body, etc.&nbsp; But you can&#039;t very well ask someone else to go back in there, to risk their lives to recover bodies.&nbsp; Because at this point they are almost certainly deceased.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>My heart and prayers go out to everyone involved in this tragedy.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Bonnie[/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>

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