do you trust your spouse while your on the road?

Trust is one of the biggest if not the biggest assets in a relationship. If you really feel this way. Part ways, if it was ment to be it will be. That boggling around in your head all day is going to leave room for a mistake that could cost you big time!

 

<-------- thinks its time to shut up and just watch..
popcorn anyone????

 

Not always but very likely.

 

No one mentioned this but I heard former owner operators say that what wrecked their business was a bad marriage. And a costly divorce.So even if it is a touchy feely subject its important to find someone you can trust with being loyal in all kind of ways

 

I just tried calling her while I sit here in this lonely truckstop. She didn't answer the phone. She didn't answer yesterday either. I'm not calling no more.

Where am I gonna find a good girl out here?

 

I already told you; on the blossoms website.
That website is good for men and women.

 

Don't worry about it. Get your #### together first, then you can go on the hunt. You got your whole life ahead of you. I thought I'd never date again... last girlfriend I had committed suicide... ten years, I stayed away from it. Then, one day, I suddenly decide to take a chance on someone.... by take a chance, I mean just pack up whatever I could fit into my Blazer, journey out to Colorado with the intent of relocating here, and seeing what it might turn out to be... I should add this was for someone I never met in person. My friends, roommates, coworkers, et. al told me I was crazy. We'll have been together for four years come November.
Weird #### happens, dude. And it happens unexpectedly. Just be patient, and your time will come. If you need to get some lubriderm and extra socks in the meantime to get you by, whatever - just don't leave the socks under your bunk when you send your truck into the shop to get your bunk heater or heater core for your sleeper replaced, okay?

 

They're hard to come by anywhere. I'll be glad to hook you up with my ex-wife.

 

#### that's old school china lol but there are a lot of cute girls on that site. It's been around forever but I guess there's a reason for that

a lot of truth there. I wasn't even interested in looking for almost 10 years also after the one previous to my current wife. It was that bad and cost me that much on more than one level. Spent those years on me. Getting my head straight, getting established both financially, emotionally and career-wise. Made a promise to myself I'd never find myself in a position where I was either dependent on or could be destroyed by another woman ever again lol. Be forced to live in your car because the house is in her name is VERY motivating.

I wasnt even even looking when I met my wife. A relationship was the last thing on my mind. We just kinda happened before either of us realized it. Hell she was supposed to be 'safe'. Lived 90 miles away. A weekend thing. Nothing to be serious about right? That was 13 years ago and it's better now than the day we met. Similar upbringing, values, and getting to know who we were getting to know made all the difference. An earlier poster referred to the 'courting' aspect of it. A lot of truth there as well in weeding out the good from the ones not worth wasting your life on.

Work on you. The rest will come. You'll know her when you find her.

 

I will also throw in my ex-wife then you can have two that is better than one right?