Girlfriend in Texas cheated already. Should I still go to Midland or another part of Texas

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  1. Chinatown

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    Chinatown, Feb 13, 2020
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    Depends what you are used to. If youre used to big city i would move to dfw area or san Antonio. If not hill country is a nice area.
     
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    Texas is a big place. I have exes there that I never see and I go through the towns they live in all the time.
     
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    Do all your ex's live in Texas?


     
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    She most likely had moved down there to be with someone else, you must not have gotten the memo.
     
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    The better question about the GF. Is she willing to share when she goes out with another girl?
     
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    Sorry, Man.
    Time will ease that hurt.
    Don't lose sight of that fact.

    One thing to remember is that if you can't trust someone in your absence for awhile, it's not meant to be.
    She'd have been lonely while you were trucking FOR SURE.
    Better to know now.

    Just my opinion, but I def would not go to Midland/Odessa because it would appear as if you were chasing.

    Still go to Texas if that's what was your plan.
    The economy is booming and you'll do just fine.

    DFW or Austin.
     
    jammer910Z, Feb 13, 2020
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    Girlfriend is out of the equation...now you should be able to focus.

    What is your purpose/goal/mission? This time, stay focused on the goal. If you are goal oriented, her cheating wouldn’t make you so uncertain. Stick with the plan.

    “But Six, what if I see my ex?”

    Who? She would no longer exist to me.

    Luck in battle.
     
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    Not all, but some...lol
     
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    Go to Texas.

    Plenty of space and opportunities.

    Get a fresh start. Sorry 'bout the GF, but the pain is fleeting. Better to find out now than when she has her hooks in half your assets.

    Even if you don't have assets NOW, a young single man can pile up some righteous bucks in a rather short time by "runnin' and gunnin'" in a big rig.

    Buy ALL your toys first, THEN "peruse the cooze".

    And watch out for the gold-digging ######.

    Best of luck to ya, hand.
     
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