Match you? Are you needing some kind of special trainer or what? Just take any trainer. If he smokes and you don't, deal with it. If he stinks and you don't, deal with it. If he speaks Russian and you don't, use sign language. Just get on with it, be assertive, get to driving.........The open road awaits you.
I've got some really good advice..... GO SOMEWHERE ELSE!!!! This is definitely your guardian angel trying to tell you something and you just aren't paying attention.