Rest area etiquette and what would you do?

Discussion in 'Experienced Truckers' Advice' started by Vilhiem, Jan 10, 2015.

  1. Vilhiem

    Vilhiem Road Train Member

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    It's funny, parked on the side of the road either before or after a rest stop doesn't bother me. Even parked on the side of an extremely busy interstate doesn't bother me. I know you guys have seen a lot, but I guess what caused me to raise questions was that they were parked inside the rest stop and while pulled off to the side so people could get by they were still technically in the middle of the road.

    At this point, I suppose it's a live and learn situation. :)
     
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  3. GWIZ2260

    GWIZ2260 Light Load Member

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    Sounds to me that this is really bothering you.... maybe looking for someone to agree that these drivers need to be "educated"?? Well, mitrucker gave you the best advice.... end of discussion.... now it you want to be a narc.... I smell a RAT!
     
  4. snowwy

    snowwy Road Train Member

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    you weren't they when they parked, so you have no idea on what the surroundings looked like.

    as long as traffic can get through, that's all that matters.

    it's when your an idiot to begin with, and you go out of your way to really show it. like some do. then it's a problem. and i have no problems honking my horn.
     
  5. bobtrucks2204

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    Yup, but watch out in VA and MD. If you're out too far from the ramps, either going in or coming out, you may get a knock on the door from a trooper with a ticket.

    Especially 83 at Shawans road exit at the wide spots on the shoulders. I always see troopers there handing out tickets, mostly during rush hours.
     
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  6. Vilhiem

    Vilhiem Road Train Member

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    Wow. Your input is greatly appreciated. I ask a simple question partly out of my own personal curiosity and partly because I know I'm inexperienced. You're welcome to think of me as a narc, or a rat, and I personally have no problem with that.

    If I wanted to be a narc or a rat, then why would I have asked the question in the first place? Just something to think about.

    I know I wasn't there when they parked but I also just did not know how to handle the situation. At the time it did bother me, and to a degree still dives. However, I recognize that the reason it bothers me is because it's not something I would have done. It's still not something I would do even now, but now that I can see it for what it is which is not a big deal, it shouldn't bother me in the future.

    I know how new I am, but I would much rather ask a question so that I can better understand how all of this works. I am still learning and even if I stay in this industry for 50 years I know that I will still continue to be learning about it. Thank you for the replies and help.
     
  7. GWIZ2260

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    Worse yet is those that park on the highway shoulders..... IMHO... I had a buddy rear end one parked on the shoulder, he didn't survive, and to make matters worse, no lights whatsoever on the truck were on....
    As for rest areas, I park wherever I can, I am new to trucking, but have had several safe parking areas not pan out for various reasons, just to name one, had to wait 25 min to get out of a FULL truckstop, as someone was having a difficult time backing into the last spot, thereby blocking my exit... I only had 38 minutes left on my 14, so luckily found a spot but that stuff happens... we just do not know what situation the drivers' may have had to deal with... as long as WE are all courteous to fellow drivers, by leaving ways to enter and exit... no harm no foul
     
  8. GWIZ2260

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    You can say what you want, but your own quote which I had inserted earlier, made it sound as if we could all just look into that little truckstop pocketbook and all our parking situations would be resolved.... We just do not know why someone may have parked in a spot, and as long as it is safe, and allows us to enter and exit, I am fine with that.
    I didn't say you were a narc, but you countered with the aforementioned quote instead of letting it go... as for that quote I mentioned, if you have seen the movie "The Departed", you would understand... Jack Nicholson was great in that movie. Sorry if you took it the wrong way, but there are already way too many people watching ALL of us truckers, and would love nothing more than to stick it to us...
     
  9. windsmith

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    You don't know if they just parked 5 minutes ago, or 9 hours ago. And you have no idea what spaces, if any, were available when they parked and went to sleep. What you see now is not what they saw when they pulled the curtains. If their truck is blocking your entrance or exit, or it is on fire, then by all means wake them up. If not, then let them be.

    I've had people block me in after I parked. When I was ready to go, I just tap on their truck, let them know I was leaving and asked if they wanted my spot. :)
     
  10. John Miles

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    I just can't get over how many drivers have no trouble at all about calling in on a driver for the smallest of reasons. What da heck has happened to this industry. Hey noob ... you want someone following you around recording your futile attempts at backing into tight spaces or whatever it is that you may be having trouble with at any particular moment in time and sending it in to your company. I'm not saying there aren't times that you SHOULDN'T call in on a driver, but almost every one of them are safety related. I make it a habit to take my grievances to the source of the problem which is the other driver if at all possible. I realize that there are situations that happen all day, every day, which force a driver to do some things which could be considered less than optimal and if you are out here long enough they will happen to you too, but I'm not a petty person and I believe that ratting on a driver is the LAST choice ... not the first. It's like trying to make a tight turn on a side street with a 4-wheeler parked forward of the stop line ... he won't back up to give you a little more room to work with and yet he is perfectly willing to call in on you saying that you came too close to his car with your rear end ... what a "crock" ... come on people .... let's stop being so darn petty. If you are going to be a professional, you have to be a grown-up first.
     
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  11. Vilhiem

    Vilhiem Road Train Member

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    I'm sorry, I did take that the wrong way. Someone else had asked where else would you have them park, and so I guess I simply wanted to make a point of there were other places nearby to park. For all I know, they might have been to all of the places and found them full. I really wasn't aiming to pass judgment on anyone, but did want to know what was right. Judge not, lest you be judged. Right? Lol

    I thought about doing what you said wind, as that's what I would have preferred if I were in that situation, but I didn't want to disturb them. I could get in and out easily enough, but there were parking spaces at that time for both of them. So my first thought was to ask the drivers if they wanted that spot.

    Years down the road, another new driver may be asking the same question about me. Go figure ha ha.
     
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