trucker's wife, new to site

Discussion in 'The Welcome Wagon' started by angel3, Oct 16, 2011.

  1. angel3

    angel3 Bobtail Member

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    Hi everyone. I am NC hillbilly's wife. Hubby just got hired on and I will be heading out with him in a couple of weeks. I am new to the whole trucking experience, my only real knowledge of the industry is from hitchhiking in the early 90s. Hoping to learn about what to expect out there and how to make this a good experience for both my husband and myself.
    Thanks,
    Angel3
     
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  3. d o g

    d o g Trucker Forum STAFF Staff Member

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    Welcome to the site. You've found a great place to learn about life on the road.
     
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  4. Trckdrvr

    Trckdrvr Heavy Load Member

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    Welcome..

    If u hitched in trucks around country..i think u have a good idea.
    From the personel side of trucking not much has changed..some really,really great drivers with hearts of gold and some real garbage.
     
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  5. ORT WIFE

    ORT WIFE Light Load Member

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    Welcome to the forum,,,,good place to have any questions answered,,,,,we also have a ladies room .Hope you will enjoy your time on the road with Hubby,,,,,i go 1-2 a yr with mine and love it.

    Have fun and stay safe
     
  6. Gears

    Gears Trucker Forum STAFF - Gone, But Not Forgotten.

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    Welcome to the forum and good luck to you guys!
     
  7. MudDogsWife

    MudDogsWife Bobtail Member

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    The one thing I have learned in all of this in the 2 years my husband has been driving is that you have got to have patience, above all else. Communication needs to stay open or the relationship can start breaking down quickly. If you weren't before, you will quickly learn to be independent, sometimes to the point that you may forget to get his input on things because you're so used to doing everything for yourself. In my experience, it's made us stronger as a couple. There's never anything boring going on because he has an abundance of stories to tell me when he calls or comes home about his previous outing. And if you're not going to ride with him all the time, it helps to try to ride with him every so often to remind yourself of just how rough they have it when they're on the road. I've only ridden with my husband once, about to make my second trip out with him, and the first time was enough for me for awhile. At the time he was with a different company and things were more strict then about stops and stuff like that, but now he's with a different company and things are much better and more easygoing. It's lonely without him being there at home with you every night, but it sure makes you appreciate his TAH more and you quickly learn to spend that time wisely. I'm fortunate that a lot of my school friends have husbands that drive too and we help to keep each other sane when it gets to be too much. It helps to have that support base.
     
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  8. dave26027

    dave26027 Road Train Member

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    Welcome to the Forum!
     
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