Heres a good question

Darn good advice right there.

 

Just by the stroke of good luck....After training maybe they will team the two of you.....

 

agree here.

 

i guess my question is why did your wife tell him where you were working?

 

He hasn't passed yet, so he may not make the cut and not get on. Maybe?

 

Okay. See, this is what I mean. YOU are saying that there is a problem. Is there a problem? Not on his end...after all, how can there be a problem since he doesn't know? Why put him on guard? You're preparing to tango, and your 'putting him on guard' is your way of telling him that there's probably going to tango lessons. DONT DO ANYTHING in connection with him.

"But what if I see him somewheres on the yard?"

You let him know that your dancing days are over.

and if there IS any issues, it won't be on your end at all. Win win.

 

well first of all I dont see what the problem is, you are both adults you should be able to act like adults when you are at work. Who knows maybe you two could help each other through since after all you are both going to school.

 

Here's a tactic I've used and it works. The Mennonites perfected it to a science. It's called shunning. Make him a non-person that doesn't exist. Even if you're in the same room, he doesn't exist and you don't see or hear him. It works on their mind and they will shortly avoid you like you have some fatal contagious disease.