Here's a realistic video about O/O lifestyle for you. Question: What's so special about being "corporate"? My ex was a controller for an international jewelry company that went bankrupt/closed in the late 80's.
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Discussion in 'Ask An Owner Operator' started by TruckerBae, May 30, 2017.
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Excellent post, for sure. The video AND the verbage.
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Yes, I watched this earlier today!!! Very insightful
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This is excellent 411 for @TruckerBae, my wife use to think I just sat on my behind and enjoyed driving. Until one day she went with me and realized how much work was involved. Ever since she went with me, she has had alot more respect for my job and sees and understands now why at times I get home grumpy. She leaves me my space and is more supportive. Even though there are things she needs to inform me about, she waits until the time is right. We been together since 1980.
Being a O/O is a lot of work, it's not a walk in the park like many think. I would suggest since your in the corporate world, if your good in finances, he would probably appreciate that a lot, BUT he might not agree to either, because when you see the numbers probably not adding up, your gonna let him know and that might even create more stress, because he loves being independent.TruckerBae and G13Tomcat Thank this. -
Hi @Wanderer1
There is nothing special about being corporate. I never define myself through my career. My point was, and I sincerely apologize if it came off in an derogatory manner, was that his job in trucking is much harder for many reasons than mine. He has to make things happen and I totally respect that. If he doesn't work, he doesn't get paid. He doesn't have sick time, etc. I get paid to show up which is easy compared to what he and a lot of you do. Some people have said that they were surprised that I would date a trucker because of the blue collar v. White collar. My point is I agree with you. I'm no better than he is. He is doing what he loves and I am as well. It doesn't bother me what the people say about him. He is a great man. As long as we are happy that's all that matters.
I have a tremendous respect for truckers (always had) and even more so now. Everyone here has been so kind to me and helping me learn more and giving me a realistic view of what he endures on a daily basis. I just want to support him and I want him to be successful.G13Tomcat Thanks this. -
@Diesel Dave, SOOOOOO true. Ma'am, as much as you "desire" to help with his 'administrative' duties; until one understands the FULL INs and OUTs of the industry, its mirthless. Even the best CPA's can be clueless as to how and why we do what we do, and work it; the best ones actually HAVE a CDL A~!
ps: I do NOT mean this in any derisive or derogatory fashion, whatsoever. I respect you for what you are trying to do for your man. My wife was a white collar manager, before she met me. She went into teaching in an "almost" One Room Schoolhouse here in the country, and loves the life. If you desire, you can too!Diesel Dave and TruckerBae Thank this. -
Hi @Diesel Dave, wow you really hit the nail on the head. Sometimes, I have thought that was all there was to it, just the driving. Until I did my research. Wow! I didn't understand why he would want to be an O/O and have the extra financial burden. We have talked about me going out with him and I suggested a day, but It looks like more than a day is needed. You're right, I don't want to stress him more by being unsupportive. I just don't want to put that pressure on him. I know he is just starting again and he's probably going through things I don't understand. Sometimes, he doesn't want to stress me because I have a high stress job. I just try to be supportive and give him his space. With the administrative, you're right. I saw a video from a load board and lanes, OMG it was a lot of information. I don't want to impede on his business, but I have offered to help as a means of support if he needs it. Just so he knows that I am there.Diesel Dave and G13Tomcat Thank this.
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Hi @G13Tomcat, no offense taken. I looked at a video regarding load boards and lanes rates and all that and I was so confused. LOL. I've got a lot to learn and some homework. I think you and the others have said what most people who are not familiar with trucking, we just think of it as driving and the like. This is so much more than I could've ever imagined.G13Tomcat Thanks this.
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With your enthusiasm and drive, you'll learn it. I sincerely believe that you WILL learn to love and respect the lifestyle.
Not all of us drivers are a "bunch of buffoons" as some of the world would have one think. You'll fit in just fine; my wife did. Traded the heels for boots, by choice~!
ps: the NYT had an article a few days ago.. . https://www.nytimes.com/2017/05/22/insider/interviewing-truck-drivers-at-a-crossroads.html?_r=0TruckerBae Thanks this. -
You have started the first steps in trying to understand the nature of our industry. He may feel that he dose not wish to burden you with helping him. Most people in this industry feel that they have to do it all. Me included but, just making the offer is helpful. There are many different types of trucking. There can be money made but not just in general freight. Working regional I assume he is leased to a carrier? If so most pay milage. Your right we do have a lot of expenses, truck payment, fuel, insurance, cargo liability, fuel tax. ETC. in my situation I can easily spend $9000 a month in expenses. I do special commodities. Mainly medical equipment to hospitals. If you like you can PM me and I can explain more and what opportunities he may have to make life easier.
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