Questions for married guys

When you are close to death its a form of darkness. However there are two or three special drugs within our DNA inside all of the cells themselves that will be activated at the time of death a few minutes prior and lasting 15 minutes after. it would generally assist you mentally at that time.

The great loss and regret in death that it is so permanent, final. End. However medical advances progress. And so, I prefer to be a bright star and live in the light of such until my last day. We have all a number to our days and frankly we should celebrate each day and starry night we are given in this life. Its awesome.

My last surgery consisted of two to three hours on life support full oxygen. and drugs designed to paralyze. (Its not my first rodeo) Coming out of that one was life altering. In the past I have had many surgeries where those systems were left off. I found it too deep down.

 

You got married for a reason. It’s a life time commitment, work through your issues it’s worth it. OTR is way harder on your spouse than it is on you, I guarantee it.
Lots of communication. Talk on the phone 3-4 times a day and include her in what you are doing.

 

I’m 45 and still have impulses to be immature. When I do I take my wife with me. Live like Bonnie and Clyde only without the killing.

 

I consider myself fortunate being able to turn into a 7 year old at playtime in the mid 50's I'll include the spouse in that little escape briefly for entertainment before we return to the deadly serious no fun allowed business of grinding out one's bones in life.

I do recognize it's really grotesque and disturbing to anyone to behave like that at play time. Thats where the phone calls go out to mental health or the lawman sometimes. So we keep that in house.

 

what if you end up with Nurse Ratched..???

uh no, lease your vehicles, rent your apartment or house, rent or lease the furniture, WILL your life insurance to the "Hookers Institute" in Las Vegas, and above all else, gamble away the rest....

 

All of those reckless 4-wheelers on the road are someone's kid. My theoretical kids have never caused a wreck, or screwed up someone's life by being selfish and in a hurry.

 

No regrets, after 10 years, well almost 11 now.

Not a normal relationship, a true partner in crime, the other half of my brain, intimate on a level beyond most. Complete each other's sentences, that sort of thing. An exact mental match, rare.

It was always an open marriage due to the fact that we knew from the start we would both go off the reservation. And despite both of us fooling around, always partners in crime. And not even a thought of apprehension as a result.

So yeah, had my steak and ate my cake. Still do, though not as much. Was the trophy for the first few years. But i wanted my own money, and Hes not had a problem with road life.


Find someone who you truly get along with and its no issue. Or find someone worth losing half your stuff over.

 

"She marries him hoping to change him.
He marries her hoping she'll never change."
It's a wonder the divorce rate isn't 100%

 

If you are determined to get married don't make the mother of all rookie mistakes. Don't tell her your real name.

 

After Careful thought I have a working thought that having no children; might be somewhat of too high a cost in life. It might be something beyond redemption in the overall design fra

There are times I question my choice when I decided where possible that carry a tiny signature here and there