Can my husbands boss do this?

you owe the company more than $34k and this is a surprise to you?

something is not quite right here, seems like the company has been bankrolling all of the expenses on your truck and they want to get their money back

if i leased onto someone and borrowed over $34k, i am pretty sure they would want their money back, quickly, because your husband could leave them hanging dry with that type of debt

and the cash advances are being used to pay bills and things so you are basically staying in the hole until you manage your money better

 

File bankruptsy, then become a company driver somewhere for awhile.

 

oh for pete's sake....

 

that'll teach you for being a lease operator.

yes they can. and they will.

 

cash advances.. he is taking money early before his "payday" so your not "REALLY" negative.. also, how the f do you not realize how to better the situation before your in 34k debt???

 

This is a really...really sad situation. Only wish I could think of an answer, because continuing on appears to be a hopeless cause.

 

that is called dishonesty, even if it is legal

he is an owner operator, ie, his truck, he needed repairs for whatever reason, i dont see that as a bad thing, the company fronted him the money, he owes them

maybe he put on too much chrome, maybe he did a complete rebuild, but they loaned him the money in good faith knowing they would get it back

he just has to develop some financial discipline to get out of the hole, cash advances only prolong the pain

 

1. Your taking cash advances so your not in the hole...your husband is getting a precentage of his money up front and when its time to to settle there is nothing left cause he already got it ..... 2. Your husbands child support is his own responsibility this leads me to believe that he is somehow just making a truck payment to an owner .... Only an employer can take child support payments and if you are an o/o or a l/p you are responsible to make your own payments .... 3. Since you are 34k in the hole this leads me to believe that your husband was given some type of grace period in wich he saved nothing and has poor business management skills so I would not question if this is legal I would begin to organize your finances and attempt to crawl out of debt ....

 

First step I would take is cut my losses cancel the lease, sell the truck, and walk away from "truck ownership". Get a company job, write down a budget for weekly household expenses, live within your means, and slowly dig yourselves out of the hole you're in.