Have you even thought of an anonymous tip to the DOT? This might change the entire way your job is handled, and they'd even need some more drivers to take up the slack that they'd now have once made to run legal. These people shouldn't be allowed to exist, but at least should be caught in the act.
4. the rider policy, i know it says family members, but do you think they would let me take my step-dad(not realy my step-dad anymore but i still call him that and my kids call him paw) he tought me how to drive and had to quit a few years ago.
No, not unless their policy has changed since I left. It is immediate family members only. You will have to show a Birth Certificate, Marriage Certificate or Adoption Papers.
no last name is not the same, i forgot to mention i am his legal guardian, registered with social security