Dealing with Anger while doing this driving job?

Discussion in 'Experienced Truckers' Advice' started by Freddy811, Jun 4, 2025.

  1. MACK E-6

    MACK E-6 Moderator Staff Member

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    This sounds like a road rage shooting waiting to happen.
     
  2. wore out

    wore out Numbered Classic

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    If you’re behind being aggravated and trying to hurry is only gonna make you farther behind.


    There’s an age old saying slow down we’re in a ####in hurry there is much truth to that
     
  3. D.Tibbitt

    D.Tibbitt Road Train Member

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    Yep. Cant hardly call people out for their ######## anymore , they just pull a gun out or brake check the #### out of you... My air horn gets alot of use in the southwest but nothing seems to change other than my blood pressure... Most the times i do nothing just wish i will see that same car wrapped around a telephone pole a couple miles up the road... That would make my day
     
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    My truck and the safety equipment requires I drive slow. I have no choice. So I just get my revenge by annoying people and I enjoy being tailgated. It helps to laugh.
     
  5. Moosetek13

    Moosetek13 Road Train Member

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    Wow. I found this to be about the least stressful job of my life.
    Get in the truck and drive, no worries.

    But at Swift I had some options that could keep me sane.
    The ability to turn down loads that I felt were too tight on time was a big one. The mac 9 is a wonderful tool. They can find another driver closer to the pickup or a driver willing to gamble on the time, or whatever. Once I turn it down it goes away.
    Mac 22 for reporting a late status if the weather got bad enough that I didn't want to drive through it. They can reschedule.

    Watercolors on SiriusXM radio. Nice calming music...
     
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  6. gentleroger

    gentleroger Road Train Member

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    You need to find a better way to release your anger. Eat a cookie, pet your stuffed duck, whatever. Its not just the idiot you're flashing your lights at - outside of drawing the attention of law enforcement you risk someone behind you calling in - "yeah, some dummy cut your driver off, but then your driver acted really aggressively ".
     
  7. snicrep

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    If I'm running late I just figure I'll get there when I get there. Everything will work out.