Despite views, what helps ME?

Are you an at-home spouse? I ask because I’m a little confused. You’re wondering what helps ME, but don’t seem to be concerned with what may or may not be good for him. If the truck driver is not in “a good place”, all the rest is mostly meaningless because that job union is not going to last.

If you’re both having issues with the constant separation, that’s important and must be dealt with but is an issue that deserves it’s own thread.

 

Me might be 2000 miles far from HIM when something breaks at the house.

You are going to find the dynamics a little stressful juggling trucking and then a chain and ball in form of a husband who seems to either pull his weight or not. You did not clarify.

STexan is right, your mind has to be clear of trouble to do this effectively. If you are emotional, mad, screwed up or whatever then sometimes trucks do wreck and yer it because of it.

 

If She’s busy memorizing all the regulations. She won’t be back for a long time.

 

Don't try to take credit for his work. Doing taxes and some paperwork does not entitle you to half of his wages.

 

find a non trucker to be with asap. lolll

 

Love, patience, and support when he is gone and when he comes home.

 

You’re right! It entitles her to all his wages!

 

I predict it will be far less than 1 year with Pam. Id break that contract as soon as you find literally any other job.