Does Caterpiller make 2 different 9 pin connectors?

The picture on the left is the correct pine setup that works with my truck, but the wider 3 pin setup on the right is for the scan tool i purchased. I am not sure what to do or what to even search for to get the correct connector....

 

I found this but hope i dont have to buy another cable...

 

so do i just get a dremel and file down those 3 pin walls? Also my truck is a 2002 Caterpillar engine

 

apparently there is a "J1939" port (I have) and i am not sure what the name of the other type of port is?

 

For anyone in the future who comes across this problem, here is the possible least expensive solution. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B1MXN7FV/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
"9Pin J1939 Green Type-2 to Cat 9Pin Converting Cable"

 

my on road CAT has the J1939 connection. The cat diagnostic tool however has a standard connection...

 

I don't speak Chinese