Ever problems with opposite sex trainers?

“Are you gay? You didn’t make a pass.”
“No, I don’t do farm animals.”

 

The vast majority of trainers have no issues with anyone. That being said, this is one of those two way street issues for me. There are training failures all of the time. Bad Trainers are everywhere, Most trainers are simply drivers who have been conned into or are scheming on other people to raise their pay without having to to much of anything. The system is the problem more than anything. To get up and going as quickly as you can, you are probably going to go out with a male trainer. Female trainers are simply less numerous that their male counter parts. I can also tell you that its been my experience that female students have just as many problems with female trainers as they do male trainers. The issue that is rarely discussed is that the industry is set up for failure for ALL students. I view the whole process as wasteful and uncaring. Look at it like a big funnel.. they pour a whole lot of people into one end of it.. and at the end of the year a handful of people plop out of the bottom of it. If your hell bent on doing this.. get your thickest skin, bring your best attitude and keep your standards in your skull! Know that the trainer is just another driver and rarely anything special these days. You could luck out and get a fantastic trainer that is full of knowledge and experience and wants to share this all with you and get you on the right track.. but its more likely that the trainer will not be or do much and your just there to get your miles and hours in to get rid of them! If they don't do anything stupid or criminal... keep your mouth shut and get past them as soon as you can. KEEP A PERSONAL JOURNAL!!! Everything and anything you want to make note of good and bad, jot it down. When and if you survive them.. at most companies there is a means of grading or evaluating your trainer.. be fair, use your journal to assess them fairly. If could make them better trainers, or if could save their next student a lot of hassles. Good Luck.

 

come on you can’t dangle a carrot like “he scared us” and not tell us the story on how.

Remember we are bored and like entertainment.

 

I know @REO6205 was right on the money. Even though I have no one blocked, it’s because I enjoy and find it entertaining when individuals put there foot in there mouths. .....just sayin’

 

He gave him a public smackdown and he told the OP where to go if she elected to block someone. I think that was more than sufficient. Anymore than that is simply humiliation, IMHO. That's all.

 

It was a well deserved “Smackdown” that been coming for a long time. IMHO......

 

ahh stupidity while packing. Got it.