Going through a breakup while on the road

I respect women as well and love them all if I could! I’m just telling men out there that things have changed. The rules of this game between men and women has changed and I don’t think men have caught up to the new rules. Lol and a lot of men are finding themselves in a big mess with women that they didn’t see because of it. And I never like to stereotype about anything, but in general, it’s getting harder to find a really good loyal woman. Especially if you’re a younger man, trying to settle down and start a family and get married, good luck. Lol Even that small town country girl has done things you probably don’t even want to know about. Lol but save yourself a lot of grief you better find out before it’s too late. Also, man it’s ok to be single, Even for a long time if need be. Life is peaceful as a single man.

 

You make a lot of good points. I've noticed Alot of younger men have changed as well..not necessarily for the better.. I am alot more thoughtful about who I choose to let into my life now that I'm a little older, but I'm all for relationships if you can find the right match.. And absolutely nothing wrong with the single life. Some people will judge for for that though but who cares, right? Those folks are just mad you escaped the rat trap and they're stuck..

 

Just for the lovin, not the cheap ones either. Pay for the high class and when the money stops so does the lovin. lol.

 

I think older people (not talking about you personally) really don't have a clue as to how much dating and marriage has changed, due to many factors that I won't veer into on the non political part of this website.

But I do I think younger men and younger women are pretty aware of it though. Younger men realize the risks and younger women realize the absolute power they have with the smartphone and living in a fat country like the US.

I'll say something controversial and maybe surprising coming from me though, I think older millennials and gen x men got screwed the hardest with the relationship culture dynamic flipping on its head during their formative marriage/relationship years.

At least Gen Z and Gen A already know that the cultural changes are here and are made well aware of them from an early age through the media they consume. Older millennials and gen X never stood a chance for the havoc that came out of nowhere for them and their relationships/marriages, via largely the smartphone (but compounded by many other factors as well).