I need help with shifting NOW!

I know this may piss some people off but all this talk about go to this rpm or that rpm do this do that. Not to say this guy is not a driver I hope he learns and does great but any good driver knows you can't teach from a computer, he's got to feel it to learn it just sayin

 

Right on, thats how I learned, and relearned, every time the Company got a different truck had to "feel around in the dark" and figure out how to drive it, first on a 9spd eaton, then a 13, and most recently the 10. The OP will get it just needs to stop worrying so much and find some confidence. Good luck.