It is what it Is.. just keep moving forward...

Discussion in 'Questions From New Drivers' started by BrenYoda883, Dec 17, 2013.

  1. SHOJim

    SHOJim Road Train Member

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    Get well soon Patty and you WILL find a job that suits your needs!!
     
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  3. pattyj

    pattyj Road Train Member

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    Sadly I think this will always be a male dominate profession and no changing that.Every orientation except a couple I was always the only female.Otr never bother me because I didn't have to work with them.But as a local driver it really sucks..
     
  4. pattyj

    pattyj Road Train Member

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    Thank you,my lower back is the problem especially when I move a certain way.Hope the next job there is more respect,little complaining and no babies.I should get paid extra for the crap I have to put up with
     
  5. BrenYoda883

    BrenYoda883 Road Train Member

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    I will share a funny one with ya all... I was down in Alabamaat a truck stop and behind a slob of a driver at the counter.. he was getting a couple tall boy bud's.. after what he thinks is flirting and the young cashier thought was annoying he turned and just stopped and stared at me.. looking me up and down.. then he say's.. "well sweet heart, how about I get two more (tall boy's) and we go have some fun in my truck...

    to that responded with.. a very surprised and pleased.. "wow.. really,, OMG.. thank you.. you are the first guy to hit on me since my surgery.. I was worried when I finally became a woman no man would be interested in me!".. his face was priceless.. and he just walked off... as I got to the counter I just smiled and winked at the young cashier and said.. "I am gonna use that one more.. it worked great!!" and we laughed as did a couple other drivers in line....
     
  6. "Hang - Man"

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    883bedomriders trainer just called, says he gives back massages in between wives! LOL JK
     
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  7. KW Cajun

    KW Cajun Road Train Member

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    I went to the doctor with the same complaint...
    I said "My lower back hurts especially when I move a certain way".
    The doc said...... "Don't move that way".:biggrin_2559:
     
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  8. pattyj

    pattyj Road Train Member

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    I know 883 told me all about it.Told her I wouldn't say a word,lol.[QUOTE="Hang - Man";3722368]883bedomriders trainer just called, says he gives back massages in between wives! LOL JK[/QUOTE]
     
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  9. pattyj

    pattyj Road Train Member

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    Good advice from your doctor,ill have to remember that,lol.
     
  10. 13doubleover

    13doubleover Bobtail Member

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    pattyj - when I started with this company 13 years ago, I was the only female driver. Local. At my 1st holiday party where everyone relaxed a little (with a little brown bottle assistance), most of the guys were laughing with me, saying how they had bets I couldn't hang, how they only interviewed me because they were told to, etc. Now I have some amazing friends AND I've surpassed most of those that were here when I arrived (fired, quit, etc.). Now I'm pretty high ranking here, make great money, have great friends - and through the years, I can only thank the ignorant for making me strong enough to excel. Good luck to you finding a place to shine....
     
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  11. Giggles the Original

    Giggles the Original Road Train Member

    some men are just jerks....

    but its also in how you dress and carry yourself. you dress sleezy or revealing expect attention. if you talk or act like you wanna hop into bed with every guy you meet, expect attention. dont flirt on the radio, dont flash anyone, dont try to use a voice on the cb other than your natural voice. dont talk about sex on the radio our in person and dont play the weeker sex crap....

    i was out there 22 yrs and for the most part never had much trouble. but when i did, i always backed them off really quick. and 9 times out of 10 who ever i was running with would stand up for me too.

    you see women all the time dressed with revealing clothing, then get mad cuz they get looked at. you are at work, dress like it, & act like it . i have no tolerance for women that give the industry a bad name. this post isnt directed to anyone in particular...just sayin how i feel. i was out there and did my job because i love to drive and thats what i was hired to do. if you wanna wear short shorts and halter tops, work in a bar or a strip joint.
     
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