I just bought some coconut butter. I have tried that utter cream and it really isn't working. BTW I hate to admit this in an open forum but I am more femmme than half the female truckers on here.
I have really dry hands and feet, and I use Udderly Smooth, but you may not like the scent. The key ingredient of both Bag Balm and Udderly Smooth is lanolin - the natural coating of sheep's wool. I would head to the local drug store and ask for lanolin. I found it absorbs fast and is not greasy. The thing you have to remember is to apply frequently.