Stupid husband

also, it is somewhat irksome, the hubby couldn't stand on his own 2 feet and ask us.

but it ain't like the first time a spouse has taken the lead over her hubby.

if she could get online, i am sure he could have as well.

 

Lots of guys have over bearing hags for wives. Always telling them what they need to be doing. Course in this case the guy probably needs some one telling him what to do. It's obvious he has no clue

 

ESPECIALLY when the Moderators have bent over backwards to host a special section for drug issues vs CDL and Trucking Industry.

And here we are. What do you expect?

Im not here to be difficult. There was a time early in my trucking time where alcohol and drugs was a possibility and with the then new CDL and related testing, I chose to eliminate the ..enablers that put me at risk that way and moved away from that. Even to this day I still have some vices but they are mine, not Uncle Sam's

 

Mine stands up to me. It's amazing sometimes when it works out after she does. But she does not suffer weak effermite people. Oh no.... and I cannot stand well.. forget it.

Sometimes I think some truckers go on the big road just to get away from unfortunate situations at home.

 

I was wondering that too.

There is a little bit slow in me many a day. But I'll add 2+2 soon enough, just let me think on that a while. What I am trying to explain is a theory I am developing that perhaps if a Trucker who has been burned by a hot test result when there is nothing in the body or in the truck or wherever may be at the time of the accident, you would think they would come here and essentially climb the mountain to seek out redemption that they must be correct in being wronged by a bad test.

Why should the wife care enough to go online and write for the hubby? Surely if the Hubby can read and write english well enough to qualify for trucking, surely the husband after climbing down from his rolling 18 wheeler computer chocked beep alarm mobile he can sit down just the same at home and write his own self.

I think that wives usually have too much to do as it is and cannot be bothered to do the extra problem of going online. Unless the hubby has been sent to jail or something.

The coffee pot hasnt kicked in yet. I'll leave this be. Unless something new comes along.

And as always not ALL OF THE DETAILS that matter in this evolving story is out yet. You almost have to pull teeth to get the facts.

 

my ex was an absolute wiz at the home budget. she never demanded my paycheck, most times it was direct deposited, as well as hers when she was working, before the kids came along. then she was a stay at home mom for a few years.

she could turn little money into a week long meal plan. and she got all the bills paid ON TIME as well.

i do as well as she did back in the day.

it didn't bother me she was controlling the spending, as in reality, only one person should be doing that, so both spouses don't go on a shopping spree and deplete the checking account.

we actually agreed to the way the money would be handled long before we got married, BUT SHE NEVER interfered with my job, or job decisions.

we ran the house like a partnership should be run.

she was the "law giver" to the kids.....i was the "law forgiver" to the kids.

which got me into trouble a time or two..lol

 

After cancer struck and chemo erased my spouse's ability to live a while I carried everything and her for 6 some years until one miracle of miracles she woke up one day. Then she asked what is our situation. Took a week to bring her back up to speed. But once there, I was overjoyed because my team mate was back taking care of our necessary house things.

It was a long 6 years. I wont be doing that again.

 

many times, a woman really takes care of the house budget better than us guys.

 

She was #### good at budgeting. Every #### day at work prior to trucking she has to balance between 50,000 to 200,000 dollars cash to the penny with Uncle Sam.

Im pretty good myself. *Snickers I should rephrase that. Just a little bit for the both of us. We have been very lucky thus far. And if I should go before she does what with the insurance on me and all, that will never be a problem for her ever again as long she lives.