I would call you an owner operator. Someone with their own authority I’d call a carrier. If you have your own authority and drive it yourself then you’d be a carrier who is an owner operator as well. I think there’s a lot of cross over and the term is pretty general. Sounds like the guy is just bitter.
Kinda how I feel as well. I have my own authority with my own direct customers. Wife and I take care of the business in house, she does the paperwork and I do 100% of the driving as well as 100% of the mechanic work when needed….
Hahaha! Arguing, over the internet. LOL I just call myself a truck driver, what someone else calls me? IDGAF