What Should I Do?

Anyone ever see a domestic fight go down? Some of the foulest behavior imaginable, she tries to duke it out, and when that doesn’t work, she’s tries playing the damsel in distress hopefully she can find a Captain Savaho. As soon as her “man” is in distress, she’s going to come to his rescue.

An hour later, the loving couple puts on this gross display of affection in public, repeating over and over again how much they miss each other and what the other person means to the other.
Greatest freak show you will probably ever see.

 

It's somebody else's fault though. Always

 

Always.

The most unbelievably MINDBLOWING thing about the whole ordeal is both of them believe that their behavior is normal!

 

Awhile back a couple got into it in a parking lot he shoved her & drew his hand back as cops rolled up & they arrested him. What does she do? She comes in restaurant sayin g whoever called cops was wrong.

 

You will be fine. The sooner you get your spouse out of there and free, the easier it will be to bind the hurts and move on.

With all that said, that must have been a hell of a fight... =)

 

Good luck hope things get better. Life can be tough.

 

Obviously there is an underlying problem, alcohol is just the truth serum that brought it to the surface.

 

well yes, off duty time.

however, you were in the motel that the company pays for at orientation time.

maybe you did (or didn't) get the company discount staying there.(which if you did use the company name for a discount, you inadvertently got them involved)...the motel owner/management may not like that, and could easily kick out your now former employer.

but you and hubby still represent the trucking company, and they just do not need any more bad press than what they probably get daily now as it is.

getting a lawyer involved will cost you money. then comes the question(s), can you take time off work (your new job) if you AND hubby have to go to court?

can the two of you afford lost wages, ON TOP of paying the lawyer's fee's..??

if the court date gets changed (and it often does) can you afford yet more tome off..??

best thing you and hubby can do is, move on.

and in the future, if you 2 stay at another motel, make sure there is no connection between your employer and THAT motel.

however, if either of you 2 get arrested again, i can assure you that your new employer will find out, especially when neither of you show up for duty....

most likely you'll be fired again, for refusing to work, unexplained absenteeism, etc,etc...