Why do so many people engage in infidelity?

People don’t go to nudists places to show off their bodies. They go to be free from judgement and to be seen as equals. People probably cheat because they are looking and judging each other. They think that’s hot or they are missing out on something they are not getting in their relationship.

people in a relationship their bodies will most likely change over time. They won’t have that perfect body they did in their 20s. If the relationship or sex is based on how they look. It won’t be good or fun as they get older. If you do stuff to makes the other person feel good. Then body image won’t matter. They also have do the same thing to you and not just look at your body image.

If you do stuff to makes each other feel good the sex can change as both people get older. If you tell each other what missing in the relationship hopefully you can fix it.

Then guys won’t be looking back or think back to what they are missing when they see some perfect hot body they don’t get anymore because their wife body has changed. The wife won’t be thinking what she missing out on also. Just make each feel good and have fun with clothes off. Then you can still have fun together with clothes on also.

 

The reasons people cheat are a varried as people on the planet.

 

This story reminds me of a story ......There was a bunch of us hanging out and a couple of the people wanted to go Hang gliding so two of us had our kid (s) with us and we went to a beach with a cliff, that to get to the sand you had to maneuver your way down this steep cliff ......not easy with a two yr old.

So everyone had passed us. My good friend and I and like a couple of Gomers, we notice people undressing on the way down and we are laughing at them. OK we get to the bottom to Blacks Beach , it was, and notice everyone was naked but our group.

Someone had a dog , and a naked guy stops to ask about him and pet him, oh and I remember he had a backpack on and hiking shoes and that was all. I am pretending I don't notice ( i didn't want to give my kid any "hang-ups" about naked bodies).....but he did notice something, and he says to me.....
"MOMMIE, these people ain't got no underwears on" I pretended to look around and said , "well, you are right, LiL Jethro, they don't" .

I looked around after while and just kept my mouth shut.
I did not see anything that I could say anything nice about.

I thought these people were off balance. I couldn't shake the feeling that they had more than "I love to feel free under the sun" to say.
Even as I knew by keeping my clothes on they were thinking I was the oddball. Or we were the oddballs.

The last thing I remember about that day was seeing a chubby lady running naked on the beach, and thinking , holy moly if she keeps that up , she will be bruising her knees when she runs in a year or two.

 

YEP that was the one !.....I was clueless.
But looking back, If it were today I could see it. But "hindsight" is always best isn't it? HeHe.

I had a cousin that was super witty and hilarious,(gay) our family in Ohio never accepted him. The family in CA we all loved him, what he did was his bussines. As crazy as this sounds, I don't think my parents knew there was such a thing as homosexuals.

I asked him about a movie star I thought was gay , and he said OH yes , he is and he is a run around! I asked him tell me more, tell me which men stars are?
He said "Oh cousin , I am not going to do that. It would break your little heart if you knew" I knew he wasn't lying to me, and I didn't want to know.

 

Ohhhhhh okay. I probably have children out there with some pretty weird ladies

 

I 100% agree.