Wife Needs Clarification

Thanks so much for your concern. Haven't been on the internet in a few days. Husband just informed me that he is going to only make another couple of hundred dollars. When I told him that we are very behind to catch up on the car, house payments, he said "Oh, well let them take it away. There is nothing I can do about it" I am reading from your posts what I thought that he could do to make more money and that is to get the freight there before time. When I suggest this, he gets defensive and tells me that I "don't understand" that you have an appointment and that is the time that you "have to deliver it" I found this hard to believe and felt that he was trying to snow me. Now that I read that delivery is possible before the appontment , I know my hunch was correct

As far as the students, he usually takes a while to get one. He tells me that there are not enough of them and that is why he didn't have one for about three weeks

Last week while he didn't have a student he spend a total of three days in three places without a run. He tells me it is because of the economony but I have been wondering for a long time but had no to ask until now, can you somehow refuse the run. I ask him this question and of course he said "no". I suspect that he is doing someting that he is not telling me to only get 1500 miles in 7 days.

As far as other jobs go, I found a resume a couple of years after I married him, and 33 jobs were listed on it. He also mentioned other jobs he briefly had in passing that were not on it. Since I have been with him (11 years), he has had another 12 jobs. Most of the jobs were sales jobs where he could hide out.

I heard that on the Dollar General route he would make more money but he refuses to do it because you have to move the freight. He just lost a Sara Lee account(a couple of months ago) which paid more. He only lasted for one week. He was told that he could not work for this account because he refused to drive at night even though he had hours left to get the freight there on time.

My main question is : Is there a way that he can refuse the load even though he is saying that he can't ?

Also, why does it take him over two weeks to get a student(He was by the Atlanta terminal twice and he claims that he asked for one)?

I really, really appreciate all your help. He thinks that he can tell me anything because he figures that I can't find out the truth.

 

I am on permanent disability. If I take a job even a part-time job then I lose my disabilty. I di think that if I could get a part time job then I could get rid of him;so I asked SS office if I could work part time because I probably could handly it, they said "no" I would lose the disabilty".