saw a sad sad thing today.

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  1. skateboardman

    skateboardman Road Train Member

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    the words that were deleted out were only "a structure that holds back water" and a "female dog", i could have cared less if the guy had been there 30 minutes or 3 days, he needed help.

    the thought of whether he was adding to the time he had been there never crossed my mind. i guess after having been in a couple of tight spots myself over the years, i can recognize desperation .

    and don't get all offended like i cussed you out or something.
     
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    [QUOTE="semi" retired;4020162]I agree with most, that was a great thing to do. But just to be clear, sometimes you literally don't have the time to do that. Shippers and receivers don't share that compassion, and couldn't care less about your fellow trucker, and they are the real sad ones. 12 hours is way too long to wait, and after a few hours, that driver should have broke down and called a service truck. It sucks breaking down, it happens to everyone, and you should probably have a plan for when it does happen. Before cell phones, you had to help someone, it was just part of the job. I carried a huge box of every tool I had, spare filters, you name it, because you were on your own. Cell phones changed all that. Now you are just a phone call away from help. It's great to hear of people like Skateboardman are still out there, kindness needs to be shared, or we're all doomed.[/QUOTE]


    not me, i always got the time. the only time i wouldn't was if i was hauling a heart for a transplant.


    i guarantee this, the outfit i am leased with would say not a word if you were late because you helped someone out.
     
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    roadmedic, i am just the opposite, i am a the glass is half full guy, not a half empty guy.

    not arguing with you or saying you are wrong at all, its just my nature,
     
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    i would go that extra mile if i can help at least you try and dont just go away.
     
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    Cool, again, good job, however I must say, in all the tools I usually took with me, I can honestly say, a battery load tester wasn't one of them!:biggrin_2559:
     
  7. Aminal

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    I'm not convinced that it's as much that we don't care as it is the crazy new time sensitive world and electronic tattle tails that most folks are having to deal with these days. There have been times I'd have loved to have stopped and helped someone but the darned schedule was darned near too tight to make it with everything maxed. I had a choice; be a good guy or get dinged with a late on a critical customer. I mean you're right in that there are a lot of drivers that don't care and in such a big and diverse industry there are some that wouldn't pee on you if you were on fire and might even "help" you by putting you out with some gasoline. That's just in any large demographic. I think most of us would help if we wouldn't be penalized for it. I blame the industry a lot more than I do the drivers. But that's just my opinion.
     
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    A young black couple with a baby approached me at the gas station where I live. It was late at night. It is a very white town.

    The vw bug they were in had overheated, and had a check engine light on ( no temp gauge). The young guy asked me to look at it. He was in the air force and travelling from Ohio to a new post.

    Couldn't do much for the vehicle. I told him to follow me 2 miles to the house. Fed them, housed them, trailered car to mechanic, then had the Joplin dealer retrieve vehicle and off they went.

    Their parents sent a gift basket a month later. Note said " Thanks for helping our kids. Its good to know there are still people like you out there."

    It felt normal and good to help someone. Good on you skateboardman.
     
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    Its a shame out of the probably 100 drivers that heard him ask for help, wouldnt.

    I for one would have no problem doin the same as you did (OP) because one day , I too may be in a situation that help is needed. I believe what goes around comes around .

    Seems to me this industry is not what it used to be years ago when a driver would help out another driver in need.(or anyone in need for that matter)

    30 years ago when my grandfather drove truck , if you seen someone on the side of the road you stoped . Its not becasue you wer obligated in any way . Its because it was the right thing to do !!!!
     
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    I am not offended. I just personally do not see the need to use such words. Now, you will come back and say all truck drivers do.

    Hardly. I hear them, and if they are using it when talking to me, I turn and walk away. It seems to me to be childish to use it, but that opinion will be taken hard by most.

    I worked in the professional world for many years. It is not needed, attractive or impressive.

    Additional thought.

    Many on here want to be treated like professionals. Would it not be a good idea to start acting, talking, and writing like one?

    Public image of the truck drivers need to be changed.
     
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    That's true, I'm glad TTR bleeps those words, and I wish other sites would do that too. Nowadays I hear a lot of young people use the "F" word, like it's common vernacular, and I'm immediately turned off by that. Maybe it's because my old man swore like a sailor( do sailors really swear that much?) and it always bothered me, and I swore(oops) I'd never do that.
     
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