Why do so many people engage in infidelity?

A few things to think about on this topic. We are gone most all of the time. The average woman, especially the average western woman requires a lot of attention. Women have passed up men by a lot in the cheating department. And they are better at concealing it than men could ever imagine being. Other women will actually cheer women on these days and aid them in getting away with their cheating. Do not ever trust a woman who goes out for girls night out. Now she has daughters or sisters and they’re calling it girls night out that’s different you know what I mean. if something doesn’t feel right in your gut, especially if you know this person well and their patterns, about a 99% chance your gut isn’t lying to you. And days gone past women would stick out unhappy periods realizing it was just a storm that would probably pass. They don’t do that anymore. If a woman is unhappy for more than two weeks, she will start looking elsewhere. Not all but it’s the norm these days.

so as to have a balanced response, as for men, we often just think with the wrong end of our body. If we can control that then we should do OK. Cheating destroys relationships. And it even destroys future relationships because if you’ve ever been cheated on you probably won’t fully trust anyone again. easier said than done, but if you need to cheat, it’s better to just end the relationship and move on. It’s the right thing to do.

And last and perhaps most important if you do have a faithful partner for yourself, wife or girlfriend whatever it might be hang onto them for dear life because this is becoming a very rare thing these days.

 

People have sex for the wrong reason. Most people have sex to make themselves feel good. Instead have sex to make the other person feel good. It will change the way people have sex and look at each other. Both people will have share with each other what makes them feel good. Both people have be willing to help each other to feel good. You both work together as a team

A stranger will not do or know this about you. They won’t even care, because they are only thinking about themselves and how to make themselves feel good.

 

This reminded me of something my Mother said to me.
My father died when I was a teenager. He loved me and taught me as well, he was a great man and his walk matched his talk. My mother never did like me much but, I always knew it was her own failing, not anything I did. It didn't bother me.
One day after my father died, my Mom overheard me telling a new friend what a wonderful man my father was, how he worked so hard his whole life, how generous he was, etc. When I heard my mom, from another room say, vett , your Dad may not have been your Dad.
I just said back , well then if that was the case , I love him all the more , for loving me and taking such good care of me.

I knew I was a lucky child, and I knew he was my Dad. Thank You Dad, I love you.
My mom finally came around, even she couldn't resist this child, I love you Mom.

 

Won't someone PLEASE think of the children? Infidelity subject, deep as a well, I married out of faith, it was purely a physical attraction, and when that ran out, we had very little in common. In fact, she HATED trucks, but I was a "nice guy", so we bilked 16 years out of it and 2 wonderful kids. Towards the end, naturally no hoocheekoo, and a fellow trucking bud had the cutest, recently divorced sister,,,I'll spare the details, and the only time I was unfaithful, but the marriage was over by then, and quite frankly, with what a hassle it was, I would never think of doing that again. After the divorce, I met a wonderful woman through a mutual friend, also a truck driver, obviously a plus, but she was overweight and no interest on both parties, yet I never strayed and spent 12 wonderful years with her, and still friends. I've been single now for almost 15 years, moved to Colorado because that's where all the women came to, one small miscalculation on my part. The women here have no interest in men, aside from "coffee talk", they don't need a man. They have plenty of money, and probably watched their husband fade away, and don't want to go through that again. I don't blame them, and why, in part, I have no interest in finding someone. At 70, I don't think I could bear to see them die, or visa versa. Tried a "Senior Singles" crap, what a scam, and proof, a lot of lonely people out there. It's our lack of morals, promiscuous society we live in that is the root of all evil. Don't think so? Just watch what "Old Navy" is selling,,,

 

What you mean?

 

That’s why I like the chubby ones. They’re my style. Even though my woman isn’t really that chubby.

 

One time @ElmerFudpucker came home to find his ex covered in hollandaise sauce. The man she was cheating with was wearing nothing but a casino vest. He was drinking a gallon of his Red Diamond Sweet Tea trying to rehydrate before another round.

Elmer would have beat him senseless but McKesson called and had a load of pharmaceuticals that needed to go so he just texted her it was over from the road. He chose saving lives instead of ending them.