A few basic questions..

Discussion in 'Questions From New Drivers' started by crazymama, Jul 14, 2007.

  1. ddog

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    Yeah, I suppose where ever the demand is present will be good enough for me.
     
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  3. easyrider

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    I love driving nights, it's the absolute best. No traffic and most scales are closed.
     
  4. BobC

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    1) What attracted you to the business?The sights, sounds, the people & who knows whatever else?

    As a 15 yr old in the very early 70's, for me it was THE adventure to go with a family friend when I could.

    I think I've had that wanderlust since birth. I've always been one of the "What's over the next hill?" kinda guys.

    I think I enjoyed the comraderee between my tutor / friend & his friends & co-travelers. I never felt "alone" on the road after I met these new people. I'd see these same folks somewhere else in a few days or so.

    At the time, there was still money in it & the work was relatively easy for the money.

    Maybe it had to do with a sense of accomplishment when I unloaded after a hard ride.

    2) What do you like about driving a truck now? Not much. I stopped being a company driver about 4 years ago. I just couldn't or wouldn't accept the "new way" of doing things & the myriad of new rules changes. I found so much wrong with the new rules, the new drivers & "that attitude" in trucking co's.

    I figured it was my time to let go of a dream before all rememberances of that dream were spoiled.

    3) Do you remember anything that was a disappointment to you at first? HAhaha yeah! No power steering, no jake brake, no mufflers on a two stack detroit, no air conditioning & not enough power to climb the hills across 80 & 90. Oh, & the 13 speed shifter was soo worn out & sloppy you had to "use the Force" to know where each gear was.

    It was the best of times; it was the worst of times.

    4) Is there anything that was/is a pleasant surprise for you? Since it was all new to me, everything was a pleasant surprise & much of it remained a pleasant experience. I never realized how big the sky was out west, how far one can see down the road, just how inspiring a sunrise or how magnificent a sunset can be in out west. There's so much more to it than I can properly give credit to here.

    I still catch myself thinking how lucky I've been to see & experience people & places in this country that most folks will only see in books or magazines.

    5) Do you entertain or plan to do something else in the next couple of years? Because I am the way I am, I won't put up with the ridiculousness of these new rules, the new breed of cops & drivers & the quality of companies today. I always kept a another skillset ready as a backup. I'm reinvested in that career now.

    6) Do you feel the money after the first couple of years justifies the long hours? Boy! That's a loaded question. It depends so much on how you view your worth. It is so different for everyone.

    If you look at the ledger strictly thru the eyes of a bookkeeper, the money used to be worth it. Now? Rarely is it worth it & probably never will be again.

    If you see things less black & white, the education & experiences will carry you forever into other venues. An education is rarely free no matter in what subject.

    Truckdriving lends itself readily to improving your confidence, independance & self-reliance.

    Thru learning your craft, you'll become cognicent & conversant in many facets of mechanics, electronics, GIS, mapping, road construction, law, physics, medicine/health...etc. I doubt there's many things that a decent truckdriver can live without knowing something about.

    7) If you could change one thing about the entire profession what would it be? Wow! That's another loaded question.

    Maybe...The arrogance &/or ignorance of todays trucking companies & federal law enforcement agencies.This is the best I could come up with in terms of brievity but it's an entire subject of it's own.

    :cool: How hard was it to learn to back up the truck?! It takes practice for everyone. I don't care what "knack" you have for it. Everyone's learning curve is different. I don't care how good you are, there's times when even the best will take several shots at getting in where normally they might get it in two. Poopie happens, all you can hope for is to not slip & fall in it. There's too much dry cleaning involved.

    9) Do you listen to television as you drive? Not television per se'. Radio yes. CB yes. The sound of the wind thru my open window yes. The singing of my tires hitting the road for hours yes. TV is written more for visual attention & you miss too much just listening. The temptation to take your eyes off the road is too great.

    10) Do you talk on a hands free phone when you drive?
    I have. Before hands free I even had one up to my ear. I even thru in a little cb chatter at the same time. Personaly I don't much like talking on the phone as I'm driving. For me, the act of doing it is not so much a problem as it is the topic of conversation. Usually if I'm on the phone during driving, there's a problem at home or at work that I can't control & that just irks me to distraction. So, I leave instructions to not call me between certain hours unless there's smoke, fire, profuse bleeding or water above the ankles.

    11) Do you get sleepy even when you have slept properly? There's been times that I got 8 hrs of sleep & a good breakfast & had to stop for a nap 2 hrs down the road. Other times where I only had 6 hrs of sleep & was unstoppable. There's been times that things would just get to feelin' good to me & I didn't want to stop...So ..I didn't.

    12) Do you actually sleep 8 hours per day? Sometimes. Usually after about 6 I was looking to get up, go inside for a SS&S, a quick coffee & a breakfast roll & then boogie.

    13) Have you ever regretted your decision to drive a truck? hahaha Yeah. Every trip out from the house. It was always "Why am I doing this?" "Why can't I just be like everyone else & get a day job in some local factory or office?" And then I'd answer my own questions. Who am I kidding? We both know you wouldn't last 6 mos in a factory & only marginally longer in an office if you couldn't get out on the road every now & again.

    Let me bottom line it for you.

    If you got in a truck once & hated it, you'll never go back & won't miss it.

    If you got in once & liked it,
    you'll never get it out of your system & it will haunt you
    forever.

    Thanks so much!

    Suzi
     
  5. crazymama

    crazymama <strong>The Gardener</strong>

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    Bob, you have explained to me beautifully how things are for you and it almost made me cry.

    Here's my dilemma...

    I drove for Schwan's Frozen Foods..just a tiny little truck compared to a semi. But it was a BIG truck to me. I never liked or disliked trucks before. I certainly wasn't a truck person and I've never lusted after any vehicle.

    There was something I loved though about showing up for work, loading up and going. I loved meeting all the people, driving, deciding where and when to stop for something to eat or a break. I liked the sense of freedom I felt I had even though really wasn't free at all.

    What I hated was that the company uses and abuses it's drivers and it was hard because you have to get your own clients. I'm not a sales person and I don't want to be. I believe the company can do a better job of taking care of it's drivers but that's another subject that's only partially relative.

    Anyway, I should have quit and never looked back. But now every time I see a truck of any size I have this regret that I didn't stay and make the job work. I find myself constantly thinking about the life a driver and wondering what it's like and if it would be for me. It really defies all reason. I don't know where it's coming from or why. But all the sudden I look at the pictures of the new trucks and the little houses on wheels that are available and I think about the communications, tv, computer/internet and it seems like WOW! I love talking to people all over the world and I meet people all over the country online from my home. I love nothing more than spending the few minutes a day I carve out for myself online but I never really get any peace or alone time at home in my family. I imagine what it would be like to drive until I can't anymore and then just spend the rest of my time in peace and quiet and doing what I want without tons of ankle biters at my feet.

    What I don't know is if I'm really wanting what's out there or if I'm just tired and bored of what's here. I'm sick of cleaning, changing diapers, dealing with ornery teen agers, being married as in having to see this guy day after day and I could use a break from all of it.

    I'm quite certain that I would also dislike the regulations if they don't seem to make sense. I deal with that in my business now. It does seem like the government has their noses too far up our butts! But that's true of almost anything I would be interested in doing.

    As for money goes.. I could deal with only making 35-40,000 the first year. I have never cleared more than that after expenses in the daycare but it feels like it in a way. My husband takes out enough money from his check to pay my taxes. I take in an average of 800 per week now and spend it all on the family bills. But a big percentage of the expenses are either directly or indirectly related to the daycare and with the money fairly co-mingled it's hard to really say. Keep in mind that I have kids from sun up to sun down and beyond. My life is not my own and I work 7 days per week. Every year some dumb jerk is angry with me because I want to take off Thanksgiving day and Christmas day! I often lose a client because of it. It's a stupid business and not really any better than what I hear all of you saying about the trucking business.

    I would like to think if I ran hard and stayed on the road a lot that I could get to a place where I consistently make at least 50,000-60,000. I'll never do that with daycare and that's for sure and for certain. Can it realistically happen with these companies or do they really run all the new people off just so they can get a few months of cheap labor? Is that really true or are there just a lot of dummies out there that have somehow not made it work for them in one way or another. Is it lack of negotiating skills, fear and the ability to be easily intimidated? I let Schwan's run me off and I've been ANGRY ever since. So I have to decide am I going to stand up for myself and weed through the companies until I find the right one?

    In many ways I feel like I'd be going to be jumping from the pot to the frying pan and I'm not at all sure which life I want more. There are advantages and disadvantages to both. It's not really about the money but it sort of is too.

    Suzi
     
  6. stardriver810

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    Hi Suzi,

    The first thing that I'll tell you about the trucking industry is that there are many whiners and b/sers out there. Then again, that's true of any industry. What that said, I'll answer your questions as I had mine answered when I was looking at trucking.

    1) What attracted you to the business? Being on my own, seeing the country, love driving

    2) What do you like about driving a truck now? still seeing the country, having unique experiences, still enjoy driving

    3) Do you remember anything that was a disappointment to you at first? The lack of common courtesy and ignorance present on the nation's highways (especially in the Northeast)

    4) Is there anything that was/is a pleasant surprise for you?

    5) Do you entertain or plan to do something else in the next couple of years? Dont know...could see myself getting into Operations/Management in time

    6) Do you feel the money after the first couple of years justifies the long hours? Truckers in general don't get paid enough...especially when dealing with the Northeast and big cities. However, if you love the job, you take the good with the bad.

    7) If you could change one thing about the entire profession what would it be? The overregulation of a trucker's working hours. While I understand the need for safety, the rules as currently constructed really cut a driver's potential down.

    8) How hard was it to learn to back up the truck?! It depends. For some drivers, it makes sense immediately. For others (i.e. me), it takes a lot of practice and time. I'll never be great. the only thing I tell myself is to take my time and be sure not to hit anyone or anything. The other drivers who are mad at you for taking too much time don't have to deal with the repercussions of a rash move.

    9) Do you listen to television as you drive? NO!!!

    10) Do you talk on a hands free phone when you drive? Almost never...I only talk on phone if I perceive there to be little traffic and good driving conditions...shouldn't do it at all but it happens

    11) Do you get sleepy even when you have slept properly? yes, at certain times of day (which is biological)

    12) Do you actually sleep 8 hours per day? Almost always..I almost never cheat on my logs. It only takes one time of cheating and getting into an accident to ruin your career.

    13) Have you ever regretted your decision to drive a truck? Yes, it's hard on my wife. She is patient but she wants me home. It's the concept of short term pain for long term gain. Most of the time, I love driving the truck, but there are certainly moments of regret.

    I hope I have given you food for thought. Feel free to contact me with more questions, etc. In general, I don't have online access on road. So, I'll try to reply as soon as possible.
     
  7. crazymama

    crazymama <strong>The Gardener</strong>

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    I really appreciate everyone's responses. I have only been reading here since yesterday and already feel I've learned a lot.

    One thing that I see that matters a great deal is to save the money and put myself through school. I just can't see letting some company own my hide in that way for any length of time.

    Obviously, owning or buying a truck is risky business.

    I'm still not certain that this is what is right for the rest of my family. But I do believe I would love the life.

    Suzi
     
  8. Gearjammin' Penguin

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    I can see that. There's a lot to know, and a lot of companies, and a lot of opinions...and, frankly, the only industry that contains more BS than trucking is politics. :biggrin_25523:

    You are correct in this. However, I would greatly question wanting to buy a truck that soon. There's a lot to know about getting into the OO side of this industry, and in many cases, you'll end up making less than a company driver. I would recommend a minimum of three years--and preferably five--before you even think about going the OO route. (And for the love of god, stay away from lease-purchase programs anywhere!!)

    Possibly. On one hand, the trucking industry is still a very barbaric and macho culture. Your being female might hurt you in that regard. On the other hand, you have some commercial experience and lots of companies are screaming for female drivers to comply with the Affirmative Action stuff. I'd say it's six of one, half-dozen of another.

    Yep. The bigger the company, the more likely they're talking (fecal matter). Keep studying the DAC reports on this forum, read the comments, and you'll be able to determine who's full of it and who might be a good bet. You're already asking sensible questions and seem to have a good head on your shoulders, so I think you'll do OK.

    Do so. Never be afraid to ask questions, but don't believe everything you hear either. Especially from truck drivers--you know what BS artists they are. :biggrin_25523:
    KC has lots of freight, but not every company has freight in that area. This means your choices of employers may be limited. BTDT.

    Sounds like you have it together, CM--I think you're going to keep on keepin' on no matter what. Welcome aboard, and don't be afraid to take the chance...I'd like to meet you on the road someday!
     
  9. crazymama

    crazymama <strong>The Gardener</strong>

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    Thank you very much GP :) I haven't made it up to the truck stop today. I've been pretty spell bound by reading all the websites and looking for other discussion boards too. I'm pretty certain I can wade through the bs and get to the heart of the matter on most things.

    I believe I'll just sit back for awhile and continue my research. I've decided for sure that I will save enough money to have at least 2 months worth of my bills in the bank and to be able to pay for my own school. By the time I do that my daughter will be 8. Maybe I won't have as much trouble finding a company willing to let her come with me. It's a deal breaker so it will never happen until then anyway. As much as I really would rather not wait another year, I'll be a lot more ready. I need to get my family ready and be in the right place in my head.

    The more I read about the business the more I think I'll just stick with being a company driver. The only reason I even think I'd like to have my own truck is because I want to drive a GREAT truck with all the comforts available. That may sound a little premadonna of me. But it's part of what is attracting me to the field. Right now I never get any personal time. I have a lot of ideas for the ways I want to spend my quiet time at the end of my day and before I go to sleep. A crappy truck just won't do! I'll deal with it while I'm gaining experience. But I will not be afraid to change companies until I find the right one. With all of you telling your stories between now and then I'm sure I'll have my search way narrowed down.

    ttys :)

    Suzi
     
  10. BobC

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    Freedom is never really free. In this racket you have everyone from little Podunk City cops all the way to the Fed's looking over your shoulders & thinking of ways to beat you or the company out of a few bucks. Sometimes this is warranted, many times not.

    The trend today is to hold you to the letter of the law, not the intent. The letter, as interpreted by the cop or his/her immediate superior, doesn't always represent the intent of the law & sometimes is completely misconstrued by the officer. It's all about CYA for them & ultimately you.
    Get used to that. Not many companies are worth the loyalty they once enjoyed. It's all about the bottom line anymore. You are a necessary expense & liability. Given any opportunity they would replace you with a lesser expense or liability. Get hurt & see how well you are taken care of. You'll fight tooth & nail for your Workmans' Comp & then come back to work just to find yourself fired shortly thereafter. Now, you're a liability on their WC insurance.
    Truckdrivers are the most hopeful creatures on the planet. We/They are always saying things like "It'll be better tommorow." "The rain will stop by tommorow". "The next load will pay better".

    The probability is that you would never have made the job work any better. You'd simply be miserable that much longer by holding onto that hope.

    Today, companies are set in their own way of doing things & rarely if ever make a change to suit the individual..unless it's something that coincides with them making more money off you.

    I know I feel so much better...now that I've given up all hope.
    It's not surprising that you feel this way. If you've been looking at any of the big company recruiting ads, they're brainwashing you into thinking how glamorous a life on the road is; How you'll be making that long green & smilin' & waving at everyone you go by in your brand new shiny big truck.

    And then you wake up to realize that while you were escaping reality being on the road, the world passed you by. You no longer have friends in the neighborhood, your kids outgrew you, your spouse who said he/she could handle your being gone a bunch wasn't kidding.

    You ask yourself "Was it worth it?" Maybe it is for some. Maybe some can actually put away enough money to be happily out of a truck early enough in life to enjoy those things that a real life offers?

    Personally, I found some worth in it. I discoverd early on that my wife & I got along a whole lot better...when one of us wasn't there. That pretty well took care of the relationship hassles anyway.

    If there's kids involved & you can't get a local run to be home every night or every other, you'll become strangers sooner than usual. It's a given that kids turning teenagers all too quickly want less to do with their parents. Everyone becomes a stranger. Since you aren't home much, kids get to that point sooner.
    You brought up the aspect of internet & such for keeping in contact with or meeting new people. Yeah, it's ok but it's a lot like masterbating. It's ok in a pinch but compares miserably to having someone else there.

    You're not generally going to be in a position of being able to just kick your feet up & wasting time on yourself. Most often you'll be looking for that hot shower, a hot meal & bed. Sure, there's going to be some time in between for messing around on a computer or whatever but it's not likely to be much more time than you have now.
    I know. Homemaking is the bain of every housewife's existence.

    Perhaps you should think of getting that vacation you need without throwing away a perfectly good marriage & kids. Loosing these will likely come soon enough if you go on the road.

    If I had any constructive advice to offer you, it might run along the lines of get better organized around the house so you didn't have to do all the chores.

    You shouldn't have any trouble teaching teenagers how to do things, the least of which is washing the clothes & vacuuming. Get them to do it now while they still know everything.

    Get your finances better organized so that your daycare business is not co-mingled with the household expenses. Treat it like a business & make a real business plan. This way you can see if the business is paying off or if it's time to just cut your losses & run. In treating it like a business you may find money or at least the way to find some money that allows you to hire someone to give you some time off.

    If nothing else, your more exacting bookkeeping will tell you if it's time to bail on the business & go for something in the workplace where you can actually make a profit with less responsibility.
    Don't let my tainted view of regs blur your vision. I started out at a time when this adversarial "us vs them" mentality hardly existed. It was not uncommon to find drivers & cops breaking bread together, at the same table even. There was considerably more mutual respect between cops & drivers then. They knew we'd be trying to get away with some stuff because they probably drove truck at some point in their lives too. We knew they knew & we had a good idea how much we could fudge before a ticket was issued. If you got a ticket back then, you probably earned it for disregarding the warning you got from trying the same stuff last week.
    This goes back to what I said about running the daycare more professionally. You don't know if you could save some money at tax time by letting the business carry your taxes instead of your hubby's check. An accountant would be in order here.

    Speaking of which, you'll want one for your trucking job too. These people are hard to find because not many acountants know trucking tax regs & you will end up paying much more in taxes.

    You may only gross $30-$35k the first yr. Out of that comes your on the road expenses. Persnally I've never gotten away with less than an average of about $125 a week. Some get by with less, but not that much less. Those people shop heavily before hitting the road & never get a hot sit down meal on the road. Also, you'll be looking for all those entertainment devices in the first yr.
    It doesn't get much better in trucking. You're always going to be on the wrong end of someone's stick.
    Yes, this is a possibility after a few yrs. It'll take you that long to find a company to settle in with. Presently, there's a dwindling supply of companies that remain decent to work for. I cannot vouche for those companies in the future when you join.

    I read in another more recent post of yours that you have a toddler & you think there's a company out there that will let you bring that little person with you. I think you can pretty well forget that unless you own the truck & even then it might still be impossible.

    I'm finding it most difficult to prevent myself from laying my morality on you regarding the toddler. So I won't stop myself.

    To make the career & money you want, you'll need to be gone most of the time. Don't do this to the kid. It's one thing for Dad to be gone but not Mom. I realize this conflicts with Today's Women's magazines but...
    Some companies do just this. Some are larger & some not so large.
    It's generally a lack of researching the company beforehand. There's myriad trucking web sites that have topics designed to make you aware of the shady tricks these companies use. This site has such a topic heading.

    Trucking is dog eat dog anymore. Companies fight over pennies. They'll swear they would go out of business if they threw you an extra few cents per mile. Meanwhile, the price of fuel has doubled & yet they're still in business. Go figger.
    Good thinking. Best of luck on that one though. The better companies will only take experienced drivers. You'll have to eat some poop before you get in there.

    Generally, your union shops are best for money, benefits, working hours etc. But that's a long shot because someone has to die or retire to make an opening there. Plus, union shops are slowly going away.
    I see your dilemma. Most marriages don't survive what I think you're attempting. Some do. I think the kids suffer most no matter what.

    I'm thinking you might need to consider a really good vacation before taking this plunge. Then, a good look at your present & future economic conditions & plans with a decent accountant or tax pro.

    I get the feeling there is a way to make the daycare profitable & get yourself some deserved time off. At the very least, you may find dumping the daycare for a local job more rewarding & profitable.

    These are only my observations which I realize I shouldn't impose on you but...Hey! It's your lucky day! You won the bonus plan.
     
  11. crazymama

    crazymama <strong>The Gardener</strong>

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    It's 3am and the only time of day I really can relax and complete a whole thought. So I wanted to say thank you for being so patient and saying so much for me to think about...

    But one thing is I DON'T have a toddler. I have a 7 year old and by the time I get my ducks in a row financially she would be going on 8. I will find a company willing to let her come with unconditionally and at my discretion or this won't happen PERIOD.

    As for the daycare..well you gave me a good laugh. Your ideas are perfectly reasonable sounding to an outsider. But don't think you could come up with anything I haven't tried in 20 years! LOL. If anyone has found a way to make more money in my current business it is definitely me. I squeeze a lot of juice out of this business. I'm just bored..

    As for teens.. Well my final teen is almost out of the house and I don't even try to get her help anymore. She is barely home between work and school. She's a manager at her job and I rather like seeing her work like an idiot! She's a chip off the old block, a real work-a-holic just like both her parents and I believe it will serve her very well in her life going forward. She wants to move out...possibly in the next few months...Can you say.... I'll help you pack honey?! I'm doing the happy dance...3 down...just 1 to go. I love my kids to death and don't get me wrong...it's a little sad to see them go..um...I'm laughing at that. I have been a doting mom. I have been there since they day they were born. I homeschooled them, did the drama camps, dance lessons, swim team meets, teaching them to drive, chaperoned them on their dates..yeah..I actually do that.. Now I talk to the oldest girls on the phone and a couple times per year the family makes a plan to get together. I love my girls. But they are ON THEIR OWN.

    My marriage...um yeah that sucks. My husband hates sex so going on the road isn't going to hurt me...22 years of living with the ice king and...well yeah.. It's not even worth talking about. We will definitely get a long quite well with me gone and handing over all the money to him. He's been trying for years to let me give him a chance to handle my money and he's a real tight #####. He will whip my finances into shape and I'm finally ready to be on the road with just enough food to get by, some books that my mother will check out from the library and take back for me as well...books on tape, cds, music...time to drive and think...um yeah... can't wait.

    Expenses on the road.. If I get a truck that has a fridge or cooler that plugs in to the cigarette lighter and one of the trucks that has a coffee pot in it I'll be good to go. I've done a little thinking about this and being a woman I know perfectly well how to make little one pot hot soups right on the coffee makers hot plate. I can shop heavily as you say before I even leave. No problem there. I have always been a lover of soup and could live on it forever. Dice up some crunchy broccoli, carrots, onions etc.. and let it cook in the soup (instead of coffee) as I go down the road...yeah. When I stop to pee at a rest stop I'll eat my hot soup with still partially crunchy but hot veggies and be perfectly healthy and happy for it. The rest of the time I'll eat my fresh fruit that I manage to bring a long or figure a way to buy a long the way. Maybe this diet of mine will finally work! I just need to forget eating in those truck stops...no way can I get that started. It's too expensive and no offense... But a lot of truckers are fatter than me! It's no wonder why. I've ate at those places. Great food but too dang much of it.

    As for the regulations... Bring them on. You don't even have a clue how much personal time trucking would afford me. I've already figured out that if I run hard enough on some days that the forced 34 hours will likely fall while I am out on the road. That's 34 hours to sit around in my truck and read and play online. You have absolutely NO, ZERO, let me make this perfectly clear....NOT one frigging CLUE! how hard it is for me to even find 10 freaking minutes to myself now unless I get up at 3am to do so or just let the dang house go and never clean it.

    Let me break this down for you.. I have taken 2 days off most years for 20 years! A few years I took 3 and a couple years I took 4. The toddlers I speak of now are all OTHER peoples kids. But they are with me 24/7! I answer the door multiple times per night to let people in and out which means I NEVER but NEVER sleep more than a couple of hours at a time. So..the forced regulations you all are whining about are the very regulations I'm doing the happy dance over...8 hours in my bunk! Yeah!!!!!!! 34 hours the truck doesn't move!!!!!!! Yeah. Someone on here said if I drove 9 hours per day I wouldn't run out of hours...that means that I'd never have the forced 34 hour shut down...um...NO this baby is driving all 11 hours most every day. I'm on my feet chasing toddlers about 14 hours per day now and answering the door and getting up nights with babies now. I work, really and actually WORK about 18 hours out of every 24 now. So...10 hours per night of rest! HOLY COW....are you kidding?

    So...lets say I get a job where I get home even just 2 days per month. And those 2 days are without daycare kids AND they are without driving. That would be 24 days off. In one year?! I haven't had 24 days off in the last 10 years combined! If I could get 3 days home per month that would be 36 days home and OFF work and that would be 36 days off...HOLY COW...I haven't taken 36 full days in the last 15 years!

    Let me drive this point home even more....When I was sick and I mean REALLY sick...possibly having cancer I was dragging 9 kids to and from doctors and showed up with 9 kids to the hospital emergency room.

    The last time I gave birth I took 6 kids with me to the hospital and marched them all right up to the labor and delivery room floor. As I was in labor and delivery the daycare parents were picking their kids up from down the hall in the waiting area. I took just 2 days off of work with my 2nd baby, 2 days with my 3rd baby and 2 days off with my 4th baby.

    So lets see... 34 hours to sit still and hold up in my truck, by myself, able to complete a whole thought without interruption every 6 or 7 days...out on the road by myself...Hell Yeah! Except of course for the weeks my daughter comes with me. Then it's ALL about her sitting in the truck yammering in my ear and that's all that little princess ever wants. She struggles to get me to give her even 5 minutes of my undivided attention as she shares me with a house full of toddlers. She loves the internet, reading, writing stories and she wants to read to me...I never sit still that long. She wants me talking to her about her stories, helping her with spelling etc. Those are things I could do as I sit and drive that I never find time to do now. She also loves to travel. She always asks when she and I can make grandma and daddy watch the daycare so she and I can go out of town. I've done that twice in the last year for a day each time and she and I just drove. It was fantastic.

    So you see... I'm not giving up. I found a website that lists the websites for 600 trucking companies out there. I'm going to start paying my bills ahead that let me do that and putting money aside for the ones that have to be paid monthly. I'm going to pay ahead on the utilities and such and keep talking about this to prepare my family. When I find a company that will give me the freedom to choose when and how often to bring my daughter I'm OUT OF HERE! I will not allow them to screw me and we will put EVERYTHING important in writing. There will be a company that allows me to do this. I have read about a grandfather that does it and as I've said this whole time.. Everything in life is negotiable. I have plenty of time to figure this piece out. I won't lower my families standard of living during the training which by my estimation is 4 weeks for school and 4-6 weeks with a trainer on the road. So I better have 3 months of my current income socked away or paid ahead plus the cost of school. I've found one for 3469 plus the cost of licenses, background checks etc...I have 4,000 dollars of expenses every month now of which probably 800 dollars is directly daycare related so I could live on 3200 and with my husbands tight ##### ways and with me NOT able to buy too many stupid gadgets I won't be using anymore anyway... I will need 13,000 dollars to switch careers.

    Anyway I slice and dice it I'll need to take extra kids for the next year and learn how to save money which is not my thing in order to make this happen. So as I said, she'll be nearly 8 by then and I'll find a company willing to shut their mouths and let me homeschool my baby girl driving down the road.

    Oh...and one more thing.. Waiting to have my truck loaded or sitting or sitting around in a motel waiting for a truck to be repaired... Bring it on. My cheapskate husband makes plenty of money and has thousands of dollars squirreled away in the bank. I supported his butt for 10 months while he was laid off of work. So a broken down truck and any and all WAITING times are just times I'll sit back and relax with no particular eagerness to get the show moving again. It wont make a whole lot of difference to me. If I can clear 35,000 + dollars per year and have it automatically deposited for my husband to manage...that will be good enough.

    Suzi
     
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