watch out for gay trainers

Discussion in 'Experienced Truckers' Advice' started by Stealth75711, Jan 7, 2009.

  1. Buster

    Buster Light Load Member

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    You got to say somthing. No matter what happens out there with a trainer. If it's safety, log book violations, even if he slaps you in the face with his
    pee pee.:biggrin_2552: It has to get reported.
     
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  3. Stealth75711

    Stealth75711 Bobtail Member

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    Well before that night he was trying to sweet talk me and kept putting his hand on my leg.. that started mr worrying that he was viewing me as his
    future gay partner. i told him that i wasnt interested because i am happily

    married and i am not gay... so in my opinopn yes he was trying to do
    something but luckily i got out of there befre something did.

    i forgive him for his actions and hope he is more responsible when
    looking for anouther potential partner and respects the wishes

    of those that arnt interested in a relationship with him.
     
  4. Etch-A-Sketch

    Etch-A-Sketch Light Load Member

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    If this really happened you need to call the training department in Marshfield and report it. If a male trainer did that to a female he would be fired. If you do nothing about it then I would guess your only posting this to stir up crap......I am with Roehl and never had any problems with my trainers as can 100's of other drivers attest to.
     
  5. 1nonly

    1nonly tease-y-ness

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    I think women everywhere can sympathize with that. I know I personally would love for men to be more responsible and respect my wishes when I say I'm not interested.

    I find it funny some men don't realize how aggravating it is to have a blantant statement of non-interest be ignored, until they find themselves in a situation with a gay man who ignores their statement of non-interest.

    Just an observation.
     
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  6. Buster

    Buster Light Load Member

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    dude, all you did was give him the opertunity to repete this action. You forgive him, how did you sleep after this?? I could have never closed my eyes. You didnt have to make the guy out to be the devil, but you could have mentioned he made you a little uncomfortable.
     
  7. Stealth75711

    Stealth75711 Bobtail Member

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    yea its a difficult situation to be in.. you want to tell

    someone but then you feel it will backfire and youll be the

    one looking like the ###. i am sure eventually if he continues this

    behavior he will be dealt with. maybe it was a one time thing

    maybe he thought i was a attrative guy maybye hes bisexual

    or something.. i wont worry about it anymore just thought i ad

    give everyone a warning about predator trainers.
     
  8. jeepskate99

    jeepskate99 Road Train Member

    That is called sexual harassment. It is illegal and no company on Earth will ignore it. It is the number one for the most payed out lawsuits. Report it and you may also become the richest trucker on here.
     
  9. No Name 38

    No Name 38 Light Load Member

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    The minute He put his hand on My leg, Safety would have been called. Thats Dental and Face safety..:biggrin_25525:
     
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  10. brinkj23

    brinkj23 "Asphalt Cowboy"

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    Why the heck didnt you call the company and report him. He sexually harassed you and now he is given another chance to do it to some other student and who knows how the next person and the person after that will take it. No matter what the problem is safety, logs, harassment it all needs to be reported because these people shouldnt be training people at all. REPORT THEM DONT BE SCARED!!! This is why we have bad trainers is because people just deal with it then let them continue to do poor training.
     
  11. Thumper

    Thumper Medium Load Member

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    :biggrin_25525:lol dam thats bad there i would wait till he was asleep and had some fun with super glue

     
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