It must have been horrible for them. Poor things. I'll say a prayer or two even though this has been some time.
Add me to that list. Im still here. But the friends car vs telephone pole is totaled. The pole was hit and intruded all the way across where I would have been sitting that night when the little car got away from my friend on that road. Im not going to get into the spiritual things that kept me from going with him. Part of it actually had to do with a last minute holiday move with the semi locally.