Got told to come here cause guys in auto hauler

I am guessing that trailer weighs a whole lot less than what you are thinking. While the GWV is 14,500, those guys building is allowing for 2 cars plus the weight of the trailer.

 

you need a cdl for any trailer that has a gvwr off 10,001 pounds.

 

I do not need a CDL to operate. My trailer has a GVW of 14,500lbs my truck has GVW of 11,500lbs my combined GVW is less than 26,001lbs I am based out of Ohio and can run throughout the country

 

14,500 is the gvw or what the trailer is rated for. That accounts for weight of trailer and cargo. The salesman is clueless. I'd seek out a different salesman if you have any spec questions.
That trailer should be around 5000 pounds.

 

If I remember, a drw ram 3500 4x4 crew cab 8 foot box is about 8500 pounds. Trailer, call it 6k
8500+6000 is 14500. 26001-14500 is 11,500 pounds. Average car is 3500, so 3500 x 2 is 7000. 8500+6000+7000 is 21,500 pounds. Account a 1000 for fluids, equipment, etc you get 22,500. 3500 under the limit.
Now these are estimates. I recommend calling a dealer and getting a stamp weight for a ram and adding 800 pounds. Getting trailer weight and adding 800 to it.
A cdl is recommended because there may be a load one day that will put you at 30k gross but being plated for 25,999 will make a dot officers wet dream come true.
Link to ram weights:
http://www.ramtrucks.com/assets/pdf/specsheet/ram_350045005500_dimensions.pdf

 

s A: Any combination of vehicles which has a gross combination weight rating or gross combination weight of 11,794 kilograms or more (26,001 pounds or more) whichever is greater, inclusive of a towed unit(s) with a gross vehicle weight rating or gross vehicle weight of more than 4,536 kilograms (10,000 pounds) whichever is greater.