Unique position in life

Discussion in 'Trucking Schools and CDL Training Forum' started by BenWolf, Mar 29, 2025.

  1. CalculatedRisk

    CalculatedRisk Heavy Load Member

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    @BenWolf,

    i'm going to give you the best advice ever. if you want to make it in this industry, lose the know it all attitude because companies will show you the door very quickly.
     
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  3. BenWolf

    BenWolf Bobtail Member

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    As far as I know, I have not shown any such attitude, except in regards to my own life situation.

    If I did, by all means... please quote my text to show me.
     
  4. CalculatedRisk

    CalculatedRisk Heavy Load Member

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    many of us have offered advice. You simply have chosen not to take it. I'm not going to go through this whole entire thread and give you examples. I'll let someone else. but as many members have said, we have offered advice and you seem to once again I will repeat myself, not take it. i'm not going to waste my time anymore on this thread. I wish you the best luck.
     
  5. BenWolf

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    I have not ignored anything. I have at least tried to respond to everything people have said. Sometimes I skipped certain topics from new voices joining on, but only because they were previously covered and it didn't need repeatedly going over.

    Unless the advice you say I'm ignoring is "Stop! Don't try to get CDL". Well, I haven't started trying, but it's still something I'm thinking over. So I guess in that sense sure, I'm semi ignoring being told to not try.

    And people here wonder why I have never done anything work wise. It's because people like that have always beat down any motivation I get by telling me that I am wasting my time trying to better myself because I'm too messed up and i shouldn't even bother.

    Do you have any idea what that does to a person's already fragile self esteem? They stand up and want to better themselves and they get told to sit down and stop trying. Yes I realize that's a personal issue as far as the self esteem aspect, but my point still stands. Why SHOULD I try, if the world tells me that I shouldn't try, which implies that I'll be a failure if I try.

    It's not about being a "professional victim" as GoldenFan put it, it's about the very people I seek advice or help from telling me that I'm not good enough to even try. Y'all want to know why I never worked, that's why. The world has called me defective and not worth anyone's time to try to be useful. I mean if you want to brand that as "professional victimhood" then I guess you can, but it's not really accurate and quite frankly it's derogatory to disabled people who struggle in the ways I have and do. (Stating facts is not playing the victim!)

    So, I have just had to make myself as useful as i can with my limited resources, for myself and a few people around me. ie: auto and RV repairs, diy repairs around the house, etc.

    Just because I can replace an engine water pump by myself in the driveway doesn't mean an auto repair shop is going to hire me off the street with no certification or work history of any kind. RV repair, maybe... since that's much more mom and pop type shops mostly. But again, zero work history. The little mom and pop shop nearby is run by the mom and pop themselves, and don't have any employees, and I doubt they could afford one. I've known them for many years now but that doesn't mean they can hire me, because again they can't afford it. Especially since a richer shop (much more money behind it) built a shop right by nearby to theirs. I'd be surprised if they stay can afford to stay open another 5 years with that competition so close by, unless they own the shop and land outright with very little overhead... which they might. But they're still probably losing a lot of business for parts sales.


    The only definitive advice I recall that wasn't a beat down for trying to get a foot in (besides the obvious of going to CDL school, passing, and then trying to get hired) is someone suggesting going to work on the floor at Walmart for a few months and then looking into CDL through them. So no, I'm not "ignoring" advice, because I have kept that in mind:

    I know that not everyone was telling me not to try, but that's the main takeaway from this thread. bad-luck is one that was decent about it, for example. I think a 2-3 people suggested a mega, which I admit might be an option.
     
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  6. tscottme

    tscottme Road Train Member

    Maybe the comment from the blind man is meant to cause you to stop deciding every difficulty is an insurmountable wall. The people that work aren't all trouble-free. They work despite the troubles in their life. Inside the Gov't racket everyone wanting help is job security for those with a govt job. They chose to hide from the economy & they expect it is the only way to live. They want you dependent on govt like they are dependent on govt. No man has an easy time living as a govt slave or under the thumb of a single mother. Your job isn't to make their life easy but to live on your efforts. If govt programs were helpful the healthiest people would be those using the most govt programs. That's everyone's definition of failure, not success. The Gov't handcuffs are meant to enslave you, not help you.
     
  7. tscottme

    tscottme Road Train Member

    You have certainly demonstrated it when you wrote "most people are working 2 & 3 jobs just to scrape by." I then posted that less than 6% of employed people work more than 1 job. You are consuming leftwing media & websites blaming all problems on political opponents & you refuse to even examine if what you are consuming is accurate or the consequences of this online-only life.
     
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  8. CalculatedRisk

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    I would like to add one thing. The insurance you have for being on disability is the best of the best. That's why I'm hesitant to take the leap and probably why I will just get my CDL and hold onto it until the right opportunity comes. I'm working retail right now just to make ends meet and I'm cool with that.

    in your first year of Trucking the insurance deductibles for your co-pay for doctors appointments are going to be horrendous. You probably will make more on disability than you would driving. now I won't tell you what I make, but after I clear taxes and when my disability income I make the same amount as my sister who is a teacher. Just some food for thoughts for you to consider when making decisions that will affect your life.
     
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  9. CalculatedRisk

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    to begin,

    just to give @BenWolf some thought. my sister who is a teacher, pays three times for health insurance through her job that through is the same health insurance company I have. She does not have it as good as I do. if she wanted to have bariatric weight loss surgery like I did, it would cost her $18,000. Mine cost me $250 in December of 2023.

    i'm having an endoscopy on the 28th for a routine check up and other reasons. My out-of-pocket expenses are $100. Half if not most of that is picked up by financial assistance through the hospital. I do not know how much she would pay, but her health insurance only covers a portion.

    another thing I want to bring to your attention is the fact that once you're on disability and go over the amount and proceed to lose it or give it up, it's very hard to get it back. I've been told it's next to near impossible to get it back. i'm not telling you what to do. i'm letting you know the harsh realities of what you're getting yourself into.

    I make $800 a month working part time for a gas station. Yes I work retail for a gas station chain. The maximum amount I can make is $1530 per month. I have not gone over that with this company. When I worked for Autozone, I did go over three times and had to prove from human resources that was due to training otherwise I would've had to pay the money back. there is one company I am willing to give up my disability for and that's the last company I worked for. Some of the admin know the name and I'm asking that they don't reveal it. that Company has excellent insurance and I'm pretty sure it's the closest to the insurance I have now.

    I paid $175 a month for the best health insurance. If I wind up in the emergency room tonight for instance, I'm on hospital financial aid. I carry a copy in my car. chances are, I will my out-of-pocket expenses will be little to none.

    I'm not trying to derail you from pursuing your dreams. I'm just encouraging you to work at part-time job and see how it goes. If that works out then see if there's a opportunity to do a period where you can see how full-time employment works.

    ultimately it's up to you. Do you want to risk everything and not have anything to come back to? Or do you want to take small steps and see how you do? I'm not too sure how it is in Texas. I'm just letting you know my situation in Florida.
     
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  10. chimbotano

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    Benwolf, as you can see , by how people write and deny the truth even dough is in front of them , we can tell there is a lots of @%#$^ people here and I think you are most intelligent of all of us.
    now, my advise for you is: stay away from this industry. too many idiots in it. with all due respect for the few who are not.
    I can tell you this. Knowing what I know , after 12 years in this industry as 100% independent O/O. I wouldn't drive for anyone for the amount of money they want to pay. I wouldn't drive for anyone who pay by miles.
    the only reason I'm here in this industry is because I'm my own man. I drive if I get pay what I ask for, period. im here because I decide when I drive and when I park my truck.
    I wish you the best . you are capable of doing better thing for yourself. take care my friend.
     
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  11. BenWolf

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    Thanks for your input. What you said makes sense, and I will keep all that in mind for sure. Things MAY have gotten better as far as the outlook for SSA (some of the planned changes have been reversed, etc). So at least in the short term, things *might* be safe for the time being. I'll continue to stash every dollar I can in savings, just in case. I have been advising my mom to do the same.

    If the bottom falls out, yeah I'll probably HAVE to do part time for something because that's mostly all you can get work wise anymore. If my mom can buckle down and save a lot, like $5-10k (she thought $300 was "a lot", before I pointed out that won't even cover her slightly over $300 mortgage for 1 month), then between her and my state paid health insurance subsidy maximum "resources" we could get by sharing expenses for a good many months while I try to figure out something to do for income. I do have a crapton of open credit cards with $0 balance, but that's an absolute last resort.
     
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