Latest update.
Team Redcoat has gone from Massachusetts to Indiana and are now heading to the D.C. area.
Redcoat has put in for home time for next week. He has not *technically* been home in three months. Last month he spent two days with me but that was because he just happened dropped off a load in Huntsville and then it took a day or two to get them another load so that doesn't count. He spent five days in the truck while his teammate had his home time a couple weeks ago so that doesn't count either.
So in my opinion, Redcoat is much deserving of a week off.
He has finally read some of this thread (only about three posts) and is very upset with me which I knew he would be. I take full responsibility for my actions and will deal with that. However, I want to be sure that everybody knows that this thread definitely has my spin on events that occur as I perceive them. Many times I have probably said things that actual drivers know is probably not really the case or they know that I have miss-spoke. Everybody should also know that in all fairness, Redcoat has never had a chance to defend his thoughts or actions should he have felt the need to do so. Every story has two sides and for sure all of you have only heard my side of things. So if Redcoat takes issue with much of what I have said in here, he has every right to his anger.
But I am who I am and this is the way I deal with my own demons. I have made decisions of late that I am not happy with and am now having to deal with the consequences of my actions. I am generally the eternal optimist but my psyche has definitely taken a beating this past year and I've probably said hurtful things that if I could take them back I probably would. But I also realize that was where my head was at the time and people are complicated. No one is ever always the same. And sometimes events just happen that you really have no control over and you just try to deal the best you can. And then after you screw up all you can think is, well, it seemed like a good idea at the time.
This industry is so hard on relationships. We all know that. It takes a certain kind of fortitude to endure the separation and the aggravation that goes with it. Then when you add the myriad of other life's problems to the mix it's a wonder anybody can keep their mind focused on what needs to be done to earn a living.
So this is me speaking what is on my mind and "airing my dirty laundry" yet again. We all have problems and issues in our lives. Some of us find a bit of peace in bearing our souls to the world and some are offended by it. Some will take my words to heart and go into this 'profession' armed with foreknowledge of what they're in for. And some may think my opinions are just crap and that I'm a drama queen.
Trust me....if you knew me, you would know that I am SO NOT a drama queen.
However, I am in the dog house at the moment but this, too, will pass....at some point.
Stay tuned.
COVENANT -- From a wife's perspective
Discussion in 'Discuss Your Favorite Trucking Company Here' started by Redcoat wife, Aug 31, 2008.
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Redcoats wife,
Thank-You for sharing your story with us. Your thread was the first thread that I started following. I am not alone when I tell you that you have a lot of supporters. I am a RedCoats wife fan. I wish you well. -
Ms. RC, thank you for sharing with such honesty and opennes... it takes a lot of courage, and I congratulate you for that.
Like you said, you spoke your side of the story. As RC's wife, you spoke about your feelings, your opinions and the way you interpreted RC's experiences in his job. Nothing wrong with that. Your thread is great and attracted many people. I support you and will continue visiting here
Wish you and Mr. RC all the best. BTW, I wish Mr. RC would create his own thread and share his experiences at Covenant
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I started watching and posting on this thread from the beginning. I hope it keeps going. I understand and know exactly where you are, and were, coming from with your post. Redcoat may by a little upset with this, but he has goten a lot of good advice on here, and you have been able to share your anger and frustration with life's ups and downs.
With all you have had to endure lately it's a wonder you are able to function at all. This thread, if nothing else, has given new drivers the real truth as to what to expect at Covenant, and that is worth more than can be explained.
Hang in there, and keep posting. Every time I pass a Covenant truck, and with their speed, it is several, I wonder if it is Redcoat. He may be mad right now, but this thread has made him famous.
If I am not making sense, it is because I am tired. I just walked in the door from turning 5000 miles since Saturday afternoon.Rocks Thanks this. -
FYI...my husband is a Covenant driver. He did receive his bonus this week. It was the full amount he was told when he went through orientation.
Someone had asked to let them know if the bonuses hit.Baack Thanks this. -
A lot more doors will open up come June as he will have his six months experience and he will have had his license for a year.
We've talked a couple times since the 'blow up' and I think we've cleared the air. I'm sure we'll talk some more once he gets home sometime next week. He made me say that I wouldn't talk about him anymore but that is very difficult to do and keep up the thread. The best thing for him to do is to just not read any of it. I appreciate everybody's kind words and support.
Rocks, I think hell would freeze over before Redcoat would share any of his thoughts. He is just such a private person there is no way he'd open up like I do.
Stranger, I'll be sure to let him know that he is now famous even though I doubt it will give him any comfort. It's hard knowing that the whole world knows your faults and weaknesses so intimately. That is why I try to share my own shortcomings too so as to even up the playing field. With all of Redcoat's faults, I have plenty of my own and he definitely considers one of them to be that I am too free with my opinions about our personal life.
That being said, Redcoat really is a nice guy. He tends to complain a lot but he had great work ethic and is very safety conscious. He treats everybody with respect and is very put out by the way he is treated just because of the job he does. However, he can see how the way some truckers act can be a detriment to others in the profession. He was telling me about a place where he was parked and behind the trailer was a ditch. He said the ditch was chock full of garbage tossed there by other truckers. He said it was disgusting all the rotting food, pee bottles, used condoms, and other putrid, unidentifiable biologicals because they were too lazy to take their trash up to the garbage cans. Man, that is just plain nasty.
Latest update.
Team Redcoat has left Fredericksburg, VA and are on their way to Indy. He was telling me about the rigid (but apparently effective) way the shipper had of moving their freight and one of the things that stuck me as yet another example of how truckers are perceived is when he went to the guard shack to talk to the security person he made the mistake of stepping inside the door. The guard told him to step outside and when he did so, only THEN would she talk to him. MUST NOT cross that threshold!!!
I have got to tell you the funny story he told me. I know all of you have been in the truck stops where you get a couple snacks and when you go up to pay, the price charged is different than what it said on the rack. Sometimes you catch it and sometimes you don't and sometimes it's not worth bothering with.
So here is Redcoat at the Pilot (evidently notorious for pricing mistakes). He gets his snack which on the rack is priced at $1.49. But when he goes up to pay, the cashier charges him $1.99. Redcoat politely points out her error and her condescending response is, "Well you obviously must have looked at the wrong price." Man, that's all it took. Redcoat calmly walks back to the rack, pulls the price tape off the shelf and brings it back to her so she can see with her own eyes that he actually knew what he was talking about. So now she gets the manager and Redcoat explains to him that he was overcharged 50 cents for the item (see? here's the evidence). So rather than void out the whole transaction, the manager just pulls 50 cents out of his pocket and gives it to Redcoat. Redcoat looks at it and then says, "Plus tax." So the manager gives him another nickel.
HA! I'm sorry, I just fell out laughing as I can just see Redcoat, the proper Englishman, standing there waiting for those people to make things right. And the best part is, he would have probably let it go if the cashier hadn't have been so snotty about it in the first place.
And that's all my news. Stay tuned.Kutina Thanks this. -
I have seen the two of you work together to struggle through what lots, if not most, new drivers go through. You have laid out the troubles and triumphs for all to see.
I see two people who had the courage to fight their demons, face adversity head on, and are closing in on the prize. Redcoat has faced his panic situations. You have been out front blazing the trail for him all the way, making sure his pay was right, getting him some time off when needed, and working to get him back with a trainer he could tolerate.
The two of you have showed many people the realities of todays trucking for new drivers, and I for one applaud you for sharing your adventure with all of us.
Not only is Redcoat now a famous person, but so is his greatest asset, Mrs. Redcoat.Baack, MountainMama and Rocks Thank this. -
Evenin everyone. I too am a new trucker wife. My husband just got out of training w/ Central. I have been lurking around this thread. I blog mainly on central truckstop. I feel that the wives issues and perpectives are very important to share. I know that it helps me not feel so quite alone. We have two young children and my husband took this career out of nessecity as well. He was gone for 2 1/2 months just came in Tuesday night for the 1st time since Jan 5th. Since the 1st of the year he has made less than 1500 dollars. I understand all the issues. We are looking at foreclosure now, ultilites are all behind. I am doing good to feed the kids. I eat once a day to make sure my kids don't have to go hungry. I look at it this way. It can only go up from here now that he is out of training. My husband left a career of 20 yrs and has to start all over again. Thankfully he is enjoying trucking for now. But #### it is hard to explain to a 7 yr old that loves her daddy more than life itself that I have no idea when daddy will be home again. So I share your need to vent, express, complain whatever you want to call it redcoat. The truckers have a brotherhood of sorts and I think it is important the wives at home develop a sisterhood to ease the pains on the home front so that the boys can keep their mind on their jobs and get home safely everytime they leave. Wether they are home every week or every three months. They have to do whatever it takes to survive in this piss poor econmy. I hope I have offened anyway blogging here seeing as I'm not a Covenant wife just wanted to voice my opinion and support to you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I've been truckin' for 21 years.My experience is this,People trucking is not just a job and not just a way to support your family.If you are going to be an O.T.R. driver.You will sit,you will miss home,family,ballgames,childrens activities at home and school.It's not just a job.LISTEN WELL o.t.r. trucking is a LIFE STYLE...not just a job.You do laundry on the road,eat out or in your truck everyday.watch your weight cause you don't get excerise unless you ADD that into your day or night which ever is convienent.As for myself,I love trucking.I live in east tn. but personally.I really don't care if I ever went home again.For the reason that after 21 years on the road.This is not what i do,But,who I am.I do work for covenant at the moment i'm in truck 12718.I run team with my 3RD wife,she is 20 years younger tham me.Listen well MOST big O.T.R. companies are cut from the same cloth.they are all about profit and getting to the top.They do not and will not give a rats rearend about you or your family personally.They just don't roll that way.Consider who you work for or look on the net.Someone always has something good and bad to say about every company.So let's all take a deep breath and grow up!
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I, for one, am grateful that you started and have maintained this thread, RCW.
My son started his career with Covenant and I started posting on this forum to get info on them which I could pass on to him. When I told him that I was passing on his experiences, he also got angry with me. He, too, is a private person and won't even come on this website because he doesn't like all the negativity he finds on here. It makes him way too anxious and he'd rather deal with the negativity of this lifestyle as he encounters it himself. As a result, he doesn't stay in contact with me as much as he did before, but I'm okay with that. I'm his Mom, not his wife. But I stay on this forum, and this thread, in particular because I like what you...and Rocks....and MCR have/had to say about Covenant. I like hearing both the negative and the positive and just the adventures, in general. Keep up the good work.
My son is still with Covenant a year after he started there (as of April 9 coming up), now as an Independent Contractor rather than a company driver. The co-driver he's been teamed with since Aug 1 last year bought his own truck in February and leased it onto Covenant and my son team drives for him now (still in the Temp Control division). He isn't making any more cpm than he did as a company driver, but they are getting many more miles per week which allows my son to come out ahead....even after setting aside $$$ for tuition (for the next 6 mo) and estimated taxes and other things he needs as an I/C. One advantage is he doesn't have that dang per diem penalty.
With all its negatives, Covenant gave my son a start in this industry when others wouldn't. If he continues to drive safely and sticks with it just a while longer, he should be able to move on to a better company (hopefully a smaller one) and do okay for himself.Rocks Thanks this.
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