Affairs on the road...I need some honest answers here.

Nana... you sure she was driver????

 

I'm going to give you the best advice right now....

Since the question is there... either in her head or yours... Then it is obvious that there is apparent trust issues. Don't go into the truck & make matters worse. Stay home & build your relationship.

 

yesssssssssss Monkey man lol I saw her get in her werner truck and drive away. If she was a lizard I make those listen to me talk about Jesus.

 

Better question...since it was a Werner driver.

Was it really a she?

 

Well it LOOKED like a she and it had boo bies and wore little shorts displaying a camel's toe. She had no chance with my hubby, he doesn't like skanky looking women. He was a cop so many years that if a woman is tacky looking he just figures they need to be arrested for solicitation.

 

I agree with REDD. Theres a trust issue and this issue is on both ends.

People who steal from others are paranoid about someone stealing from them. People who cheat are paranoid about someone cheating them. Your wife will have more opportunities to cheat than you ever will in a truck.

Cheating however is just a symptom. Noone goes into marriage to cheat, yet cheating happens. Find out WHY, not IF.

 

I speak from experience... The same question was asked of me when I started driving. Then I had to hear it over the phone... Your ##### this & your screwing that... Whats her name... Blah blah blah.

No matter how I tried to convince her that driving 700 miles a day really doesn't leave much room for recreation activity... Plus the fact I was married, intended to remain married, and had others things to do with my money... She wouldn't believe me.

Later I found out that she was cheating... And of course we ended up divorced. I never did cheat on her or taken a commercial opportunity in my life... I practiced self love... It's cheaper, quicker, more satisfying, & I don't need to visit the doctor afterwards...

 

I rest my case. Just about every time Ive heard of a driver who had a wife that accused him of cheating was cheating herself. Be sure to keep that in mind.

 

you truely have to be dedicated to failure to be happy on the road. I'm happy

 

I've been approached a few times at truck stops and just said no thanks. I intend to be faithful to my wife and will as the Bible says "flee from sexual temptations" . One time I was hit on in a company drop yard in Delaware by lizzard and tell you what I left that yard as fast as I could. I was thinking about doing my 10 there but found a place futher up the road that was well lit and on or close to I-95 this happened a while back so I don't remember all the details. Like I said b4 this is one temptation you run from. It isn't worth messing up your trust in each other. BTW my wife supports me 100% in my career and I keep God 1st in my life. God bless you all