Questions for married guys

I don't regret it at all. I'm 57, she's 53, we met in an online video game 5 years ago, she came to live with me, we were married 6 months later.

3rd marriage for both of us. She is my world. She supports my OTR 110%.

I cannot and don't want to imagine life without her.

 

If you love her and she loves you the answer is clear.. problems can be worked out if you try

 

I'd make one other suggestion. If who you work for allows it. Let her come with you on some of your trips. That way she's not always home alone.
For me I am "single." But only because my fiance and I have not gotten married as of yet. For us, it is going to work out well. She used to be a military wife. So was used to her ex-husband being gone for long periods of time. We've no kids, so she can come on some of the trips with me, in time. We both enjoy and need our "alone" time. Her partially due to PTSD issues.

So talk with her, see what she's feeling. And do what is right by you both.

 

you better switch to local soon post ad on Craigslist.

 

NEVER marry! It's just a bad business decision. In the end, she gets everything and you pay her for the "pleasure" for the rest of your life.

 

youre on here asking the question and also you have doubts thinking deep down. So my answer to you is "DO NOT get married". You will only regret it in the long run and wont work out. IF you found the one you wanted to marry, you would never second guess it and you wouldnt be seeking the advise. IF it was true love, you would have no second thoughts and you would be doing everything in your power to get hitched. Stay single and doing what you are doing. When the time is right for the right person, you will know when. But right now, you are setting your self up for stress and miserable life and failure becuase you are not ready and you are not sure

 

WOW! On my second marriage, but the first I didn’t just give up, Kind of sounds like you got married for the wrong reasons? All I can say is? Best of luck to you and your wife

 

I am confused. OP, are you already married and thinking about divorcing? Or are you thinking about getting married?
Sorry
I didn't quite get it.

 

there are as many sad stories out there about lost Lov as there are about divorce. If you can find someone who truly loves you then your lucky. Be content with that and run naked through the truck stop parking lot when you feel like being immature. Once you step on a #### bag you will decide to grow up.