a little advice about where to live

Good advice, but be sure to check the state on other things - like property, sales, and sin taxes (if ya drink or smoke). Wyoming wins in the choices Chinatown offered but who wants to live there?

 

Go re-read hurst's posts. Every time you get depressed and start typing stuff like you just did..........go re-read it. No one can change this for you......and remember.....good choices beget god choices......you make a few and you'll feel better and WANT to make more good choices.....hang in there this CAN get better!!!

 

Mebbe you'd have a girl if ya sinned a bit...

 

Forgot this earlier..............BUT....either Mailboxes Etc. or the UPS Store give you a street address. They also offer great forwarding services......if you know you are doing a 34 hr reset somewhere they will overnight the stuff to you. GREAT service.

 

You don't have to use a PO Box at most UPS Stores or Mailboxes,Etc. stores. Change the word "box" to "apt" and you're good to go. Some states may cross check that, but not all do. Make sure the street address is also on there.
Friend of mine in a similar situation, last time I talked to him, rented a storage room at a facility with 24 hr. access. That's the address on his drivers license and the storage room number is his "Apartment" number.
His home life, before trucking, was horrible. Entire family & relatives shunned him because his mother had an affair with her husbands brother who fathered him. Small minded people in my opinion. Anyway, he has a good life and banking money every payday. Rather than dealing with a dysfuctional family, he attended trucking school and never looked back. He has freedom most people can only dream of.

 

I doubt it's illegal; he put a cot in there and sometimes takes a nap and reads his mail there. The point is, he was in a bad situation and did something about it. He didn't have a car at the time, only the company truck; nothing holding him back. He did the same thing in Michigan, Utah, California and lives a relatively stress free life. Look at your truckers atlas, pick a new town to call home, and do something about it.
I was friends at one time with a guy from Alabama; everything he owned was in a suitcase except his huge bank account. Last time I saw him, several years ago, he was in Jacksonville, FL and headed for Utah. Said he planned to live there for awhile. Every state has good trucking jobs so nothing holding anyone back. Even married drivers can do it. Took me two weeks to get rid of all my stuff at a garage sale and make a move.

 

ChinaTown makes a good point. Let me expand on it. Does your employeer run Mexico or Canada ? If so, take some runs north and see the world ! After you poke along America on the 80 or the 90, see about a run up north and do the Trans Canada. There is a lot of nothing along there, especially in northern Ontario. Maybe it'll help you reflect and clear your mind ? Just another thought.

Thus endith the therapy session